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Old 09-05-2013, 10:22 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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would women respect a mans decision to bail if the woman makes him wait a considerable amount of time?
Sure! Obviously - they aren't a good match.
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Old 09-05-2013, 10:22 AM
 
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would women respect a mans decision to bail if the woman makes him wait a considerable amount of time?
Depends on how you define a considerable amount of time: 1 month? 6 months? A year?
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Old 09-05-2013, 10:23 AM
 
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eff that i wanna be the king
No pun intended?
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Old 09-05-2013, 10:43 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Depends on how you define a considerable amount of time: 1 month? 6 months? A year?
Ive never had to wait very long; typically by the sec date, a couple on the third. I just can't imagine waiting 4-5 dates in; I would deem the woman uninterested and would eject without any warning or excuse; never to hear from me ever again.
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Old 09-05-2013, 10:43 AM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Nope, not by the logic some men are using here. According to them, I have to treat all men equal. No one can be special.

Is that ok?
Yeah making me wait after letting some othe guy tag it after a few hours makes me feel real "special".
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Old 09-05-2013, 10:45 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Yeah making me wait after letting some othe guy tag it after a few hours makes me feel real "special".
So, if some woman feel in love with you and wanted to have sex with you for the rest of her life - you wouldn't feel special? You'd think that the guy that she had sex with after one date and never saw ever again was the special one? Yeah. Okay.
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Old 09-05-2013, 10:46 AM
 
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Ive never had to wait very long; typically by the sec date, a couple on the third. I just can't imagine waiting 4-5 dates in; I would deem the woman uninterested and would eject without any warning or excuse; never to hear from me ever again.
That is definitely the mature way to handle a difference in philosophies.
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Old 09-05-2013, 10:47 AM
 
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Ive never had to wait very long; typically by the sec date, a couple on the third. I just can't imagine waiting 4-5 dates in; I would deem the woman uninterested and would eject without any warning or excuse; never to hear from me ever again.
How often are the dates? Once a week or every couple of days?

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Yeah making me wait after letting some othe guy tag it after a few hours makes me feel real "special".
So you prefer to be the same as all the other guys?
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Old 09-05-2013, 10:55 AM
 
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Whoops, double post.

Last edited by NilaJones; 09-05-2013 at 11:08 AM..
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Old 09-05-2013, 11:02 AM
 
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It's interesting that so many people read this post:

...and then this post:

...both of which describe situations where the man is making the woman wait -- and somehow flipped it around in their heads and thought the discussion was about women making men wait!

Sometimes people are so frantic to cling to their imagined realities that they literally cannot process data that contradicts them.
There are a lot of angry, obstinate, bitter people on this subforum. Fortunately, their experience is not in any way reflective of reality or the dating scene in general. They come here to pizz, moan, and whine with a few kindred spirits. That's about it.
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