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Old 09-18-2013, 06:32 PM
 
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Have you ever met a woman who had everything, but was too fat?

She had a good job, a pleasant manner, etc., but had too much weight.

Is it "shallow" to consider this "bad" not to date her?
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Old 09-18-2013, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Pa
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No but let me know when you are in your 40's and have the same mind set.
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Old 09-18-2013, 06:36 PM
 
Location: The Puget Sound
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I wouldn't consider it shallow.
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Old 09-18-2013, 06:37 PM
 
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No but let me know when you are in your 40's and have the same mind set.
Will do.
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Old 09-18-2013, 06:41 PM
 
Location: Terra
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No, but that's usually how it works. Hung out with a friend and her sister a couple weeks ago. The sister was an awesome girl but ummm... larger. I had a lot of non-sexual fun with her though. Not that there's anything wrong with a big girl. But different strokes for different folks.
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Old 09-18-2013, 06:45 PM
 
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No, but that's usually how it works. Hung out with a friend and her sister a couple weeks ago. The sister was an awesome girl but so fat. I had a lot of non-sexual fun with her though.
Too fat can always be fixed....keep that in mind.

I learned that when I went to my high school reunion and this gorgeous woman keep giving the football players the middle finger

I got a hug......
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Old 09-18-2013, 06:50 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I cant say I have encountered this, so no.
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Old 09-18-2013, 06:50 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Fat girls can lose weight and turn into knockouts. But you will never see that if you just reject her on that alone. In fact when I was a heavy girl I could be laying dead in the hallway I would get stepped over. When I lose the weight and got down to a size 4/6 those same people were talking me up in the hallway and flirting. I didn't give them the time of day. I am an 8 and feel fat. Considering that I was a size 24/26 at one point..that is amazing.
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Old 09-18-2013, 07:10 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Yes and she was lazy, would spend alot of time reading books.
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Old 09-18-2013, 07:24 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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Have you ever met a woman who had everything, but was too fat?

She had a good job, a pleasant manner, etc., but had too much weight.

Is it "shallow" to consider this "bad" not to date her?

Why don't you help her lose weight by going on active dates?
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