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You are completely missing the point. This has nothing to do with that. I don't feel entitled to attractive women. I know that I must have a lot of value if I want to date attractive women which is why I've worked hard on improving myself the past few years. But this has nothing to do with that. This thread is more about not wanting to date insecure liars. I hate deceivers. I see nothing wrong with feeling entitled to honest women. I don't want someone lying to others and themselves.
So who appointed you the online dating profile police? I am sure that there are both men AND women who lie about more serious things online such as marital status, employment status, mental stability, homicidal tendencies, etc.
Beauty may be skin deep but ugly cuts clear to the bone. Had you not been so shortsighted you perhaps could have been cordial and met another woman (like a friend/coworker/sister) through the woman. Its ok not to find her attractive but there is no need for bad manners and rude behavior.
So who appointed you the online dating profile police? I am sure that there are both men AND women who lie about more serious things online such as marital status, employment status, mental stability, homicidal tendencies, etc.
And why should I accept that? I don't like liars. I like honesty. I have a lot of respect for people who are honest even if the honesty would hurt them. IF someone is willing to lie to themselves, just imagine what kind of disgusting lies they could potentially tell to you in the future.
I gave her one glance up and down and told her this won't work out, then left the bar. She did text me later, but I was done with her. Whats the protocol in these situations.
Whatever the protocol is, it isn't that. What disgusting behavior. Who the heck raised you?
The decent thing is to not lie in your pics or profile. Not my fault that her profile was not representative of her at all. People who lie don't deserve respect or decency. If you went to a job interview and they lied on their ad to the point where it was a completely different job, you would be pissed, rightfully so. You don't treat insecure liars with special respect that they don't deserve.
I'm sure you did not mention you are a shallow and arrogant a$$hat in your online dealings with this girl, so you lied too, by omission.
And why should I accept that? I don't like liars. I like honesty. I have a lot of respect for people who are honest even if the honesty would hurt them. IF someone is willing to lie to themselves, just imagine what kind of disgusting lies they could potentially tell to you in the future.
Her "lie" paled in comparison to your rude behavior and bad manners. Your handling of the situation was very juvenile. Perhaps you should spend more time on your people skills before attempting date.
And why should I accept that? I don't like liars. I like honesty. I have a lot of respect for people who are honest even if the honesty would hurt them. IF someone is willing to lie to themselves, just imagine what kind of disgusting lies they could potentially tell to you in the future.
So do I......so do I.
It always hurts me............But it never changes.
I kinda doubt you were everything she'd hoped or expected, either.
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