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Its not so much about who ages better. Its all about how attractive the opposite sex finds you. For a woman, 18-24 is that prime, and after that its downhill. For men, its often the opposite where men are found to be most attractive in their 30s and 40s. It doesnt mean there are no beautiful and stunning women who are older. It simply means theuir 18-24 year old versions were that much more attractive to men. The end.
Fortunately, women in their 40s and 50s can date and find mutual attraction with men in their 40s and 50s, and no one thinks they are "missing out" on anything. You will understand when you are older. Maybe.
Fortunately, women in their 40s and 50s can date and fine mutual attraction with men in their 40s and 50s, and no one thinks they are "missing out" on anything. You will understand when you are older. Maybe.
you didn't actually reply to what he said. you replied to what you thought he said. he never said anything about people older than forty being unable to date each other and be happy and feel attractive
Its not so much about who ages better. Its all about how attractive the opposite sex finds you. For a woman, 18-24 is that prime, and after that its downhill. For men, its often the opposite where men are found to be most attractive in their 30s and 40s. It doesnt mean there are no beautiful and stunning women who are older. It simply means theuir 18-24 year old versions were that much more attractive to men. The end.
Its not so much about who ages better. Its all about how attractive the opposite sex finds you. For a woman, 18-24 is that prime, and after that its downhill. For men, its often the opposite where men are found to be most attractive in their 30s and 40s. It doesnt mean there are no beautiful and stunning women who are older. It simply means theuir 18-24 year old versions were that much more attractive to men. The end.
You're funny. Honestly - I doubt you could tell a difference in a 23 year old and a 28 year old. I'm not saying that 50 year old woman looks the same as a 22 year old - but I think it's funny when people talk about a woman's looks going down hill at 24. I didn't look much different until my mid 30's - and I'd say I looked my best around 31 or 32. But if it makes you feel better - then you can think whatever you want!
This graph is making the rounds on the web. It's a graph that compares the sexual value of men and women over their lifetime. SMV stands for "sexual market value."
They think any woman over the age of 23 looks like a 90 year old.
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Originally Posted by zentropa
What exactly do these young, inexperienced men here think a 40 or 50-year-old woman is naturally supposed to look like? Men and women can be attractive at any age, even when they look their age.
are we reading the same thread? where is this coming from? quotations preferred, because i'm reading statements like this:
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Originally Posted by OdysseusNY
surface level physical attractiveness aging is a bit gentler on men overall
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Originally Posted by CaliDude1
looks or health? If we are talking health it seems women age better as we men tend to be harder on our bodies in our youth. If we are talking looks then its not really a fair comparison. The value our society places on looks impacts women more negatively
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Originally Posted by Ascension2012
It doesnt mean there are no beautiful and stunning women who are older
They just want women to sleep with them so these guys try to lower their self esteem and make them feel worthless so they'll stoop to the PUA/manosphere guys level and sleep with them. It's a form of abuse and manipulation, nothing more.
Plus, these guys all think they're entitled to and deserve a ridiculously hot supermodel because they have major issues. Anyone else is subject to ridicule and harassment.
Yeah, that's pretty much the bottom line.
This kind of thinking just goes for making them less attractive. It's a petty and vindictive temper tantrum. I'm just wondering how very disappointed they will be when they do get to my age. If they drink their own kool-aid, it's going to be a pretty bitter scene when they hit 40. Imagine their shock when the women their age are not crying and throwing themselves at their feet, and the 20-somethings don't all care about money, and "status" and want to date the old dude.
I would suggest that they try to raise themselves up as opposed to putting women down, but I can't see that burst of enlightenment helping. Unfortunately.
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