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That is fortunate, indeed. What is unfortunate, that same men in the 40s and 50s only wish they had/believed to have what it takes to date the women they really find attractive, as in 18-24 year olds. As it is, they settle for 40 and 50 year olds, because thats the best they can do. Thats the truth.
Well this is true. Those guys probably masturbate to porn of women in that age range
Am I supposed to give a **** because I'm 39 and I hit some invisible wall that someone made up to make themselves feel better? I like my age. It doesn't bother me that I look my age. Why are people so focused on this?
Who cares..... Really.... Who cares?
I'm not spending my night boo-hoooing over it. I've got better things to do (like drink wine damnit!)
That is fortunate, indeed. What is unfortunate, that same men in the 40s and 50s only wish they had/believed to have what it takes to date the women they really find attractive, as in 18-24 year olds. As it is, they settle for 40 and 50 year olds, because thats the best they can do. Thats the truth.
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Originally Posted by Ascension2012
I have proven to be able to attract girls 14-20 years younger than me, without much effort and with no LTR expectations. I wouldnt be in LTR with someone based strictly on physical attraction. Yes, my GF is in her early 30s, and while I obviously find her physicaly attractive, Im not dillusional to think that she didnt receive more interest form men when she was 18-24. In other words, there is more to a person than their physical appearance, even a woman.
The thing is - here is where you lose all credibility - and you probably still won't see it but here goes...
In one post - you say that men in their 40's and 50's "settle" for women in their 40's and 50's because that's the best they can do. They WISH they could date them women that they really find attractive - but they have to settle. And, to you, this is the truth. BUT - then you say that, although you CAN attract women 14-20 years younger than you, you haven't settled. YOU have chosen to be with someone in her 30's because there is more to a person than their physical appearance. Did it ever occur to you that many men in their 40's and 50's haven't settled for a woman in their 40's and 50's - but like you, they realize that there is more to a woman than their physical appearance? And, like you, they are attracted to the women they are with who are in their 40's and 50's? I'm not saying that some men think young women are unattractive - I'm saying that there are many men that prefer to be with someone close to their own age because they would rather be with someone they are compatible with emotionally - and they still find women their own age attractive. That, for many men, it's not a matter of looking at women their own age and comparing them to women 20 years younger - but it's just about finding someone they connect with who they are also attracted to - and that may well be women their own age.
I have proven to be able to attract girls 14-20 years younger than me, without much effort and with no LTR expectations. I wouldnt be in LTR with someone based strictly on physical attraction. Yes, my GF is in her early 30s, and while I obviously find her physicaly attractive, Im not dillusional to think that she didnt receive more interest form men when she was 18-24. In other words, there is more to a person than their physical appearance, even a woman.
That's a very convenient explanation. I guess the "truth" applies to everyone but you.
Good women are like fine wine. Many improve greatly with age in all aspects. The presentation, the pour, the sip, the taste, the finish and the sweet aftertaste.
There are ladies in this world who bring the glow out of a man with ease and know how to give it back and then some more. When she's mastered that skill and shares it an a journey to finding and treating that one lucky, that woman is like the finest Scotch. GLEN-LOVELY is what she is!
I've met a few ladies that definitely are worth more than the saying alone. Almost married one but she was a little too crazy for me. Still an awesome woman though.
The thing is - here is where you lose all credibility - and you probably still won't see it but here goes...
In one post - you say that men in their 40's and 50's "settle" for women in their 40's and 50's because that's the best they can do. They WISH they could date them women that they really find attractive - but they have to settle. And, to you, this is the truth. BUT - then you say that, although you CAN attract women 14-20 years younger than you, you haven't settled. YOU have chosen to be with someone in her 30's because there is more to a person than their physical appearance. Did it ever occur to you that many men in their 40's and 50's haven't settled for a woman in their 40's and 50's - but like you, they realize that there is more to a woman than their physical appearance? And, like you, they are attracted to the women they are with who are in their 40's and 50's? I'm not saying that some men think young women are unattractive - I'm saying that there are many men that prefer to be with someone close to their own age because they would rather be with someone they are compatible with emotionally - and they still find women their own age attractive. That, for many men, it's not a matter of looking at women their own age and comparing them to women 20 years younger - but it's just about finding someone they connect with who they are also attracted to - and that may well be women their own age.
But this thread isnt about finding someone you connect with. Its purely about physical attraction. And Girls in the age of 18-24 are most attractive to all men. In a physical sense. Even average looking girls in this age group, find themselves relentlessly persued by 4 or 5 men of all age groups. Do you think its a coincidence that girls in this age group rarely if ever use online dating? There are plenty of men who will claim otherwise, only to go home 15 minutes later and masturbate to porn with 20 year olds. Believe me, as a man, i know what Im talking about here. To be perefectly honest, the age range isnt 18-24, its closer to 16-24, but knowing how people in general are blinded by political correctness as to how someone could not be attracted to something that isnt legal, I choose to leave that out of the discussion. Its big fat pile of social conitioning, is what it is. There is only one reality, some see it for what it is and are able to communicate it and some say things that are easy on the ears of those who are listening. Guess where I stand?
But this thread isnt about finding someone you connect with. Its purely about physical attraction. And Girls in the age of 18-24 are most attractive to all men. In a physical sense. There are plenty of men who will claim otherwise, only to go home 15 minutes later and masturbate to porn with 20 year olds. Believe me, as a man, i know what Im talking about here. To be perefectly honest, the age range isnt 18-24, its closer to 16-24, but knowing how people in general are blinded by political correctness as to how someone could not be attracted to something that isnt legal, I choose to leave that out of the discussion. Its big fat pile of social conitioning, is what it is. There is only one reality, some see it for what it is and are able to communicate it and some say things that are easy on the ears of those who are listening. Guess where I stand?
But that's not what you said in your other post. You said that men will SETTLE for someone older because they can't GET someone younger. If we are talking about pure physical attraction - can you honestly tell me that you can tell the difference between a 24 year old and a 25 year old? Or a 28 year old?
Honestly - I could care less about all of this. I just find it humorous that so many men on here are so eager to tell women that their looks nose dive after 24. If it makes you feel better - that's fine. But it's just silly.
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