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Old 10-28-2013, 10:40 AM
 
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Yeah I figured that was the case but I really feel like confronting him about it. Do you think it's worth it or nah? I just point blank wanna tell him how uncool it is to feed me all those romantic lines when in fact it was all BS. I just hate the idea of him getting away with all that he's said, it really bothers me.
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Old 10-28-2013, 10:42 AM
 
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Dude is a total player.
He is telling you many things.

The keys for you to LISTEN to are:
You are dealing with a bad boy
I can be an a*****e.

This guy wants in your pants so bad, and he is trying to butter you up as much as possible to believe him.

Think about it this way, if a woman told a guy the following;
I'm a baaaaaad girl
I can be a real b****
What is being communicTed there ?
Is she communicating to someone that they have good intentions, and that they are interested in you as a person, or is the woman saying, I want to use you for sex, even though I have no plans in my life right now for a man and a relationship. Oh but hey, if it helps me hook up with you, I'll tell you how you are the most amazing person in the world, and hopefully my charm and status and hot looks get me into your pants.

Oh, and by the way, don't be hurt when I hump and dump, cause I TOLD YOU i was a badboy a*****e. You fell for me, when you shouldnt have.
THAT is what this guy is saying.

Apparently, I can't give this person any more reputation for a bit, but they're spot on here.
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Old 10-28-2013, 10:44 AM
 
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Yeah I figured that was the case but I really feel like confronting him about it. Do you think it's worth it or nah? I just point blank wanna tell him how uncool it is to feed me all those romantic lines when in fact it was all BS. I just hate the idea of him getting away with all that he's said, it really bothers me.
Depends on what you want. Do you want to f**k him? Then do it, as he's obviously down. Do you want something more? You're not going to get it, so don't bother. No point in having a "confrontation", though. It's not your job to call people out for the way they live their lives. Either you're buying what he's selling or you're not, but to lecture him about selling it is silly
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Old 10-28-2013, 10:47 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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"I could plant a baby inside of you"?? How is that supposed to be romantic? If someone said that to me I'd run the other direction.
Yeah, that's a rather odd and creepy thing to boast about.

"Oh, so you have working sperm? Wow, what a man! This must be my lucky day!"

I'm a little concerned that the OP hasn't already run away. That's not a great indicator for her self-esteem.
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Old 10-28-2013, 10:48 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Yeah I figured that was the case but I really feel like confronting him about it. Do you think it's worth it or nah? I just point blank wanna tell him how uncool it is to feed me all those romantic lines when in fact it was all BS. I just hate the idea of him getting away with all that he's said, it really bothers me.
I wouldn't waste my time if I were you. I'd just take the high road and move on. He's only "getting away with all that he's said" if you're continuing to be with him.
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Old 10-28-2013, 11:19 AM
 
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Thoughts?
Almost all of those things he said would have made me run already. Just walk away, no need for confrontation.
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Old 10-28-2013, 11:37 AM
 
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*barfs*

Who talks like that anyway?
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Old 10-28-2013, 11:43 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Humanity makes me sad sometimes.
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Old 10-28-2013, 11:48 AM
 
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How can you not see this guy is trying to play you?

Even when I read some of those quotes, they freaked ME out!

If you're still interested in this one, after all the freaky things he's said about you and to you, you need to evaluate yourself!
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Old 10-28-2013, 04:10 PM
 
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My dad got married so many times after I moved out of the house I couldn't keep track of them nor invest the time in it.
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