For the women, what percentage of relationships involved good, great or bad sex? (how to, lover)
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Women seem to follow a pattern.....Any man they are currently with at the moment, are in love with, falling in love with, or in any fashion have a relationship with which they view as having a future, they always describe the sexual part as, 'the best sex they've ever had." At the very least they tell the man they are with this!
After the breakup, they will class the man anywhere from, they sucked, to, it was ok. But Never as the best.
So my question for the women is, without involving the hate, resentment or otherwise bad feelings of the past, what percentage of your past relationships involved good sex?
Also, how to you grade your sex? I hear women say things like, good, great, amazing, the best ever. etc.
If a woman says to her man, "we have good sex" what does that mean exactly?
If a woman says to her man, "you're the best I've had, BECAUSE we love each other, what does that mean? I assume, not really the best raw sex, rather it might be emotionally fulfilling? What does the BECAUSE part mean?
So honestly, if you've slept with say 20 men throughout your life, how many were incredible, amazing great, how many were just good, how many were bad, how many were absolutely horrible?
It's never occurred to me to tell tell a guy it's the best sex I ever had. I guess I just expect--and get-- great sex, once the training period is over.
I've never told a guy he was great in bed, nor has anyone asked. Weird.
i've been told this some times. depending on how I viewed about the sex in question, my feelings in response ranged from feeling "weird" (like you say) to "mildly flattering but taken with a grain of salt" to "oh god yes I agree"
i've certainly never asked, you might as well wear a scarlet "I" for insecure. although talking about sex is good, i don't think just asking "was it good for you baby?" qualifies...
The responses here are utterly amazing. Have any of you been around a group of women on ladies night out? Has anyone had a best friends, (females?))) these topics are discussed ALL THE FREAKIN TIME! and right here more then ever on this forum. So far the response here indicate this topic never comes up? No woman ever tells her guy he's the best, all sex is basically equal with few exceptions. WTH??? Did I enter the twilight zone? Is it national hypocrisy day?
Every guy wants to know if he was good! Every last one! Sometimes we know, sometimes we are told, asking is indeed insecure. That I'll agree with. But that was not the point!
The responses here are utterly amazing. Have any of you been around a group of women on ladies night out? Has anyone had a best friends, (females?))) these topics are discussed ALL THE FREAKIN TIME! and right here more then ever on this forum. So far the response here indicate this topic never comes up? No woman ever tells her guy he's the best, all sex is basically equal with few exceptions. WTH??? Did I enter the twilight zone? Is it national hypocrisy day?
dude relax, three women and myself responded (discounting the poll requests), and i responded saying that it happened. give the thread some time. i don't think it qualifies as a national holiday when all interested parties fit in a honda civic
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