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Are you the same person that faked being assaulted while on the phone with your gf ?
I remember a really odd story someone posted about faking being a victim of a crime or fight for pretty much no reason.
She believed you and you never did tell the truth.
Yup...lol. that's my current gf. 6 months strong and counting!
and that's not the worst thing i've done in this relationship either...i managed to top it. I write little notes to myself, lyrics, poems, confessionals, to-do lists...and I leave them all over the room. Well, she got into one of the confessionals (I was actually practicing for confession..I'm Catholic..and in that I wrote "I'm currently sleeping with a girl I know I will not marry"...and, yeah, the blowback was massive. that was a couple months ago...)
but she's a bit crazy...both yesterday and today she's was like "dub, put a baby in me."
need to figure out how to make her stop saying that.
not that i wouldn't marry her, or have a baby with her....just that i'm not doing that until i'm a lot more mature...
but you're dead wrong. i told her the truth ages ago. she wasn't happy...
Yup...lol. that's my current gf. 6 months strong and counting!
and that's not the worst thing i've done in this relationship either...i managed to top it. I write little notes to myself, lyrics, poems, confessionals, to-do lists...and I leave them all over the room. Well, she got into one of the confessionals (I was actually practicing for confession..I'm Catholic..and in that I wrote "I'm currently sleeping with a girl I know I will not marry"...and, yeah, the blowback was massive. that was a couple months ago...)
but she's a bit crazy...both yesterday and today she's was like "dub, put a baby in me."
need to figure out how to make her stop saying that.
not that i wouldn't marry her, or have a baby with her....just that i'm not doing that until i'm a lot more mature...
but you're dead wrong. i told her the truth ages ago. she wasn't happy...
Lieing the way you do in regards to frequency and the level you take things affects your credibility.
Last edited by AverageGuy2006; 11-20-2013 at 04:20 PM..
Reason: eh.... nevermind
Oh yea, then she probably realizes the OP has a penchant for lieing.
Yeah, I'm a bit of pathological liar.
People are nosey though...and I'm a bit private...so, to not be perceived as rude i don't tell the truth exactly how it is a lot of the time. it's a habit from my childhood...i just didn't like everyone knowing everything about me.
it comes off as lying when i end up confessing though...but the alternative to that is to be extremely explicit with how i feel...
for example, i imagine the virginity question came about like this:
"how many women have you had sex with?"
if i were to be very honest in that situation, i'd say...
"i do not feel comfortable giving you that information about me..."
but tell me, how do you get sex then?
i mean, i'm sure there's a way...but keep in mind i'm a young non sexed horny man? do you really expect perfection from me 100% of the time?
....so i probably went with:
"a couple"
thinking 'what does she mean by 'sex'? i mean, if x/y count, then 'a couple' could be correct'....
then things build, and you have to cover the fact that you weren't comfortable telling the truth, because that will end up hurting them, so you commit to it.
that's how i get caught in that stuff. it sucks.
i wish i could just be like....
"i will not answer that question as i don't feel ready to let you into my life that much..."
without then losing the girl.
i'm not really excusing the lies I make...but i know why i make them and it's hard to find other ways to achieve the same effect without them.
People are nosey though...and I'm a bit private...so, to not be perceived as rude i don't tell the truth exactly how it is a lot of the time. it's a habit from my childhood...i just didn't like everyone knowing everything about me.
it comes off as lying when i end up confessing though...but the alternative to that is to be extremely explicit with how i feel...
for example, i imagine the virginity question came about like this:
"how many women have you had sex with?"
if i were to be very honest in that situation, i'd say...
"i do not feel comfortable giving you that information about me..."
but tell me, how do you get sex then?
so i probably went with...
"a couple"
thinking 'what does she mean by 'sex'? i mean, if x/y count, then 'a couple' could be correct'....
then things build, and you have to cover the fact that you weren't comfortable telling the truth, and the lie grows...
that's how i get caught in that stuff. it sucks.
i wish i could just be like....
"i will not answer that question as i don't feel ready to let you into my life that much..."
without then losing the girl.
i'm not really excusing the lies I make...but i know why i make them and it's hard to find other ways to achieve the same effect without them.
but that's another thread topic.
Well, there's always the option of learning from past mistakes and changing to be a better person.
Well, if this isn't the worst thing you've done to her - maybe it was the straw that broke the camels back. Just because it was your first relationship, that doesn't excuse you doing horrible things.
I know, but he says they were still on speaking terms until he made that confession. Then suddenly, she's gone. To me, that suggests she took up with someone else and doesn't want him to know. Just a suspicion.
I know, but he says they were still on speaking terms until he made that confession. Then suddenly, she's gone. To me, that suggests she took up with someone else and doesn't want him to know. Just a suspicion.
I don't know why that would matter if they've been broken up for a long time. I would assume she's had other relationships since the OP. Have you read the other posts by the OP? Sounds a bit... off.
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