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Old 12-02-2013, 11:55 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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When do you ask the questions?
Or do you just use a condom with no conversation about the issue?
Do you require an STD screening?
Would you be offended if asked to take an STD screening before any sexual interactions?
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Old 12-03-2013, 12:05 AM
 
Location: Central Bay Area, CA as of Jan 2010...but still a proud Texan from Houston!
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Would you be offended if asked to take an STD screening before any sexual interactions?
The only thing I will offer with respect to this question is...if you don't understand that viruses have an incubation period before being able to be detected then you need to educate yourself about this. Having anyone that you just met screened for viral STD's will not guarantee you a STD free person.

http://www.cdc.gov/actagainstaids/basics/

National HIV and STD Testing Resources - Frequently Asked Questions

http://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/

Sexually Transmitted Diseases
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Old 12-03-2013, 12:31 AM
 
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My ex girlfriend called me up today, and told me she had just tested positive for HIV. I didn't really know how to comfort her, so I said "I know". anthony jeselnik
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Old 12-03-2013, 12:49 AM
 
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Before kissing or anything else.

In the past I brought it up, but next time I might wait for the other person to do so.
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Old 12-03-2013, 01:53 AM
 
Location: Tucson/Nogales
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It surprises a lot of people to learn that some people are immune from getting AIDS. I was with someone for 10 years with AIDS, never any condoms used, no safe sex, and just before dying he told me: Don't worry! You're not going to get AIDS, God's got a more vicious disease awaiting you some day!

2 years after he died, I got tested! Negative! I think he was right, which has had me shaking eversince. What more vicious disease awaits my end?

I once took care of an AIDS patient, he knew he had AIDS, but couldn't test positive until the very end!

Yes, the incubation period! Which can be a long one! For someone who tells me he's HIV-, that gives me no reassurance whatsoever! But if some idiot wishes for me to get tested, I'll do so! And laugh silently!
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Old 12-03-2013, 02:04 AM
 
Location: Brooklyn, NY
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As soon as possible.
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Old 12-03-2013, 02:36 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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My ex girlfriend called me up today, and told me she had just tested positive for HIV. I didn't really know how to comfort her, so I said "I know". anthony jeselnik
Have you given any thought to getting tested?
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Old 12-03-2013, 02:48 AM
 
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Before that first time having sex.
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Old 12-03-2013, 02:50 AM
 
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It surprises a lot of people to learn that some people are immune from getting AIDS. I was with someone for 10 years with AIDS, never any condoms used, no safe sex, and just before dying he told me: Don't worry! You're not going to get AIDS, God's got a more vicious disease awaiting you some day!

2 years after he died, I got tested! Negative! I think he was right, which has had me shaking eversince. What more vicious disease awaits my end?

I once took care of an AIDS patient, he knew he had AIDS, but couldn't test positive until the very end!

Yes, the incubation period! Which can be a long one! For someone who tells me he's HIV-, that gives me no reassurance whatsoever! But if some idiot wishes for me to get tested, I'll do so! And laugh silently!
I remember reading that something like ten percent of the population is immune to getting it. Crazy but good news.
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Old 12-03-2013, 11:08 AM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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The only thing I will offer with respect to this question is...if you don't understand that viruses have an incubation period before being able to be detected then you need to educate yourself about this. Having anyone that you just met screened for viral STD's will not guarantee you a STD free person.

CDC - Act Against AIDS - HIV/AIDS Basics

National HIV and STD Testing Resources - Frequently Asked Questions

CDC - NCHHSTP Home

Sexually Transmitted Diseases
My question more about when the issue is brought up to a new potential partner. Are people just not even having the discussion?
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