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Old 12-21-2013, 06:31 PM
 
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Your absolutely right. Thank you I needed that. I will continue on without him and get back to me. It won't be easy, but I will do it.
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Old 12-21-2013, 06:42 PM
 
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Your absolutely right. Thank you I needed that. I will continue on without him and get back to me. It won't be easy, but I will do it.
Good girl.

You know in your gut that you have to do this!

You were a challenge to him, but for whatever reason, he's lost interest now.

Trying to recapture his interest or force him to love you by "proving" your dedication is a fools errand.

Real love will not hurt you like this okay?
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Old 12-22-2013, 03:33 PM
 
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Yeah I suppose I was a little too much of a challenge for him.
So I'll just focus on myself and increasing my bank account and worry about men and relationships when the time is right because love hurts too much. Thank you so much.
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Old 12-22-2013, 03:36 PM
 
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Yeah I suppose I was a little too much of a challenge for him.
So I'll just focus on myself and increasing my bank account and worry about men and relationships when the time is right because love hurts too much. Thank you so much.
You know what Kellz, real love doesn't hurt, so you can be sure that when you ARE hurt, there is no love. Hope that helps?

In life, timing is everything.

It just may be that now is not the time for a relationship for you, that's all.

So do focus on yourself and doing all you can to become the best you that you can be right now.

This way, when the right guy does come along, you'll be better prepared to be in a solid relationship
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Old 12-22-2013, 04:32 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Where do I go from here???! I've tried everything...
As far away from her as possible.

[as long as you're with her, you're spinnin' your wheels]
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Old 12-22-2013, 07:56 PM
 
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As far away from her as possible.

[as long as you're with her, you're spinnin' your wheels]
I left man...I finally came to my senses to see that what was going on just wasn't right. Funny thing is, the longer time goes by after I broke up; the more I see just how messed up it was/is
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Old 12-22-2013, 08:26 PM
 
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I left man...I finally came to my senses to see that what was going on just wasn't right. Funny thing is, the longer time goes by after I broke up; the more I see just how messed up it was/is
Hindsight is 20/20. Congrats on taking that difficult step.
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Old 12-22-2013, 08:26 PM
 
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I left man...I finally came to my senses to see that what was going on just wasn't right. Funny thing is, the longer time goes by after I broke up; the more I see just how messed up it was/is
Distance often lends leads to perspective
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Old 12-23-2013, 10:08 AM
 
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Hindsight is 20/20. Congrats on taking that difficult step.
Thank you! And thats just it, looking back you always see clearer that which at the time you had trouble understanding.
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Old 12-23-2013, 10:09 AM
 
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Distance often lends leads to perspective
It does! I'm hoping things juts get clearer and clearer from here on out
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