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Look, the simplest explanation is usually correct. It makes more sense that she is not into YOU rather than "not sexual," which she had proven to be false numerous times by "doing stuff" with you.
I am starting to believe the latent lesbian theory.
Then why does she say she's attracted to me in every way and that nothing compares?
Because she may be very good at acting and manipulation to reach her goal (e.g. marriage to a safe man who can provide emotional/financial security, father of children, coverup for lesbianism - who knows?)... Maybe she's even trying to convince herself that attraction isn't important, or that she will become more into you once you get married (I know some cultures that believe this.)
As "Birdinmigration" posted - "PAY ATTENTION TO HER ACTIONS," not her words... Her actions do not show that she is into you. Sorry.
p.s. I would like to hear from any woman here who developed a passion/lust for a partner, after it not being present in their relationship for the first 1+ years. Maybe they can prove me wrong.
Neither of you has found the "full package," and both are settling and trying to fit square pegs into round holes. This never works and the process is quite painful.
Why not cut your losses and find someone more compatible?
Neither of you has found the "full package," and both are settling and trying to fit square pegs into round holes. This never works and the process is quite painful.
Why not cut your losses and find someone more compatible?
This post really makes the most sense. It's tricky to try to second-guess what she's really thinking. Best to chalk it up to simply not being a good match.
I don't understand the whole ex thing at all even after all of this. Are you sure it's that she's not into me or that she just can't handle anything physical?
YOU have a problem. You are obsessed with the ex and their physical relationship. You bring this up in virtually every post you make. Every. Post.
And the girl is a MESS. She has serious issues that need professional help, in my opinion. Since she refuses to address them, you really have no choice here. Your relationship is not going to work. Period. Here's why: You are incompatible, sexually. She is immature. She cannot be intimate. She is cruel. You are obsessed with her past sex life. You are self-centered. Shall I go on??
For everyone's sake, just move on. Set her free. Let her fix her life herself.
YOU have a problem. You are obsessed with the ex and their physical relationship. You bring this up in virtually every post you make. Every. Post.
And the girl is a MESS. She has serious issues that need professional help, in my opinion. Since she refuses to address them, you really have no choice here. Your relationship is not going to work. Period. Here's why: You are incompatible, sexually. She is immature. She cannot be intimate. She is cruel. You are obsessed with her past sex life. You are self-centered. Shall I go on??
For everyone's sake, just move on. Set her free. Let her fix her life herself.
You don't think there's anyway I can be around and this be fixed?
Also, she has never masterbated before. That adds to all this awkwardness of everything. She made a comment once that she felt dirty down there and it's weird bc she has all of her girl parts inside her as to where mine are out in the open?
I think she's just really uncomfortable with herself all around. I just wish I could help in some way.
Or she should could just be shut down and not open to a sensual touch. Just because a women is insecure and doesn't know what pleases her doesn't mean shes a Lesbian.
I dated a girl briefly who exhibited similar behvior when we finally made it to the bedroom. She said "Don't kiss my breast", "don't touch me down there", When I went to kiss my way down she said "Thats far enough" when I was about waist level. She proceeded to be confused when I lost my erection and even more confused when I told her we weren't compatible and we better give it a break the next day.
You must really like this girl if you have been going though this for so long?
Did the girl you mention ever have anything in her past or was she religious? This sounds identical to how she is.
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and even more confused when I told her we weren't compatible and we better give it a break the next day
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