What type of sexual desire do you prefer from your partner?

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by stepka

No udoli, I have not based my opinion on one post alone--I've read quite a few of your posts from months back and your attitude screams thru loud and clear. I could go back and collect the "evidence" but it doesn't seem worth the effort to me so I'll just go back to one example that you seem to remember so well. We were discussing the size of men's equipment awhile back and you were ridiculing me for defending them, but I'm a firm believer that one should not be mean to someone b/c of an issue that they have no control over and just b/c it was a disappointment to you, does not mean that it would be to everyone else, yet you could scar a guy for life with your attitude. I simply cannot imagine one other thing in a man's life that he would be more sensitive about, yet you were laughing on here about being mean to them about the size of their genitals. That is not very nice at all.

But you may be right--maybe you don't hate men--maybe you don't hate anyone. Maybe you just don't have any feelings at all for people and seek entertainment in hurting them. People lacking in empathy often do things like that for kicks.

There's no need to be mean to anyone unnecessarily.

I've been with less than attractive women and haven't made fun of them or whatever. To make fun of someone's physical attributes such as genitals is just awful.

Making fun of a mans short penis or whatever, well, I'm sure that guy could find something wrong with the woman he was with, that train goes both ways.

Bottom line, treat people as well as you can, assuming of course these people deserve basic respect, I'm not talking about nasty troll type, but even with them, don't engage them.

I came across a real nasty character on here a few days ago and man, he just wanted to fight. He got quickly deleted, but damn..... some real damaged people running around out there and I've got no time in my life to engage them. I used to, but when I come across one now, I just vacate the thread.

[stepka]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

assuming of course these people deserve basic respect, I'm not talking about nasty troll type, but even with them, don't engage them.

I'm sure you're right Chow--you usually are.

[udolipixie]

Originally Posted by stepka

No udoli, I have not based my opinion on one post alone--I've read quite a few of your posts from months back and your attitude screams thru loud and clear. I could go back and collect the "evidence" but it doesn't seem worth the effort to me so I'll just go back to one example that you seem to remember so well. We were discussing the size of men's equipment awhile back and you were ridiculing me for defending them, but I'm a firm believer that one should not be mean to someone b/c of an issue that they have no control over and just b/c it was a disappointment to you, does not mean that it would be to everyone else, yet you could scar a guy for life with your attitude. I simply cannot imagine one other thing in a man's life that he would be more sensitive about, yet you were laughing on here about being mean to them about the size of their genitals. That is not very nice at all.

But you may be right--maybe you don't hate men--maybe you don't hate anyone. Maybe you just don't have any feelings at all for people and seek entertainment in hurting them. People lacking in empathy often do things like that for kicks.

Those are blatant lies. I stated I have a size preference for genitals and dump those that don't fit it. I did not ridicule you for 'defending' them because I saw nothing for there to defend against. I did not laugh on here about being mean to them about their size of their genitals. I highly doubt you could go back and collect the 'evidence' considering your seeming tendency for blatant lies (the bolded words) and projections (you claim I pretty much hate guys for how I respond by 'making a scene' when guys tell me stupid and insulting pickup lines).

Here's the exchange from the thread 'Am I wrong to not want to date Damaged Goods? (attractive, call)':
me responding to the thread OP
I don't think it's wrong as it's not hurting children or animals and isn't illegal.

I have a similar filter and don't date guys that paid prostitutes/escorts, are virgins/inexperienced, had a nice guy phase (misogynistic entitlement), paid prostitutes/escorts, sexually harassed/sexually asssaulted/raped/physically assaulted gals Mod cut: Orphaned., are divorced, have cheated, or had what I labeled issues (depression, bipolar, borderline, social anxiety, medication, shrink visits).

your response to my post
Or guys with little bitty private parts either I gather. What would you do if you found a guy who had none of the issues you list above but his junk was too small, oh, but you had major chemistry? Throw him back too? And how exactly do you find out if he once went through a "nice guy phase"? (Have to agree with the one about men who raped or sexually assaulted someone and will add child molesting and stalking to my list.)

me
You gather correctly that I don't date guys with little bitty private parts though I consider that a physical preference not being damaged goods. Quite unsure how not dating guys due to genital size is relevant to this thread. Do you consider having little bitty private parts being damaged goods?

If I found a guy with none of the issues and his junk was too small I'd reject him and get another guy. Mod cut: TMI; off topic.

I've been able to find out if the guy went through a nice guy phase as my experience have been that many guys are open to it, admit to being a nice guy, or their family/friends/colleagues say so.

* The TMI that was cut out was about orgasms and detailing my opinions/experiences/observations on male genital size affecting the likelihood of getting them.