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If you read my posts, I don't believe anything is a sign of sexual attraction from a woman. She could come up to me in a crowded store and ask for my phone number and I wouldn't think so. I would take it and call her and find out, but I would still expect some non-romantic motive for her asking and rejection.
All I ask is that you be conscious of leading guys on who you are not interested in. I understand it is unintentional some of the time. If I were a hot guy, I'd be conscious of being too friendly towards women I had no interest in ... definitely I would.
You either agree with that or you disagree.
I correct myself. You may not believe that every woman who compliments YOU is coming onto you, but you think that most other guys will feel "lead on" if a woman compliments them. You're just much more astute than other guys.
You don't seem to see, however, how you keep equating complimenting/being nice with 'leading guys on." You just did it again- see bolded above.
This is actually sad. You made a post. You got a bunch of responses. The bottom line being that a small hand full of people have a problem. You would seek to change all of society to "solve" this problem. When in fact a better, content, healthy solution exists for these individuals who are fully capable and empowered to solve it themselves. Without the added reduction in polite kindness to the unafflicted.
"Seems to me, we've got to solve it individually?"
I correct myself. You may not believe that every woman who compliments YOU is coming onto you, but you think that most other guys will feel "lead on" if a woman compliments them. You're just much more astute than other guys.
You don't seem to see, however, how you keep equating complimenting/being nice with 'leading guys on." You just did it again- see bolded above.
I'm a lot more jaded than astute, but the end result is the same.
I don't think telling a guy that he did a good job on a financial report qualifies no.
But I gave an example before of a woman calling my friend pet names and being flirty with him. Maybe that's a better word, flirts and compliments.
The point is, either you're conscious of it or not. I'm very conscious of it and leading a woman on I have no interest in (if and when that day ever comes).
Yes, all of that and romance. Where is the romance?????
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