Does asking women out give a man confidence? (kid, meaning, relation)

[hawaiiancoconut]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

Because I am nervous as hell. My anxiety around beautiful women is coming back.

F that! You're going! Don't be a FLAKE!

Dress nice, be a gentleman, be yourself, and have fun.

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by usamathman

Nervous about what.

The worst thing that can happen is you make an ass out of yourself and she doesn't want to go on another date.

What do you do then?? You move on to the next one.

Millions of other women out there.

I'm not worried about that at all. If this one doesn't work out, I'll take a break from dating.

[usamathman]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

I'm not worried about that at all. If this one doesn't work out, I'll take a break from dating.

How many dates have you been on in the last month??

Taking a break = throwing in the towel = surrendering to rejection

No Bueno.

JUST HAVE FUN DUDE.

[le roi]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

I decided to approach a woman for the 4th time in my life. She was incredibly attractive. I was shocked to find out she was single. To my surprise, she said yes when I asked her out (we are going out this weekend). During our conversation, she told me "guys don't really ask me out." I always thought women who were beautiful were taken. Usually, I am scared to talk to attractive women. But this time, I wasn't afraid. When she said yes, all my cynicism went away. I actually felt...confident. Guys, has this happened to you? Is it normal?

yup.

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by usamathman

How many dates have you been on in the last month??

Taking a break = throwing in the towel = surrendering to rejection

No Bueno.

JUST HAVE FUN DUDE.

This would be my first date this year. Overall, this would be my 3rd date in my life.

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut

F that! You're going! Don't be a FLAKE!

Dress nice, be a gentleman, be yourself, and have fun.

I just saw her now. She is really looking forward to it. I'd feel like such an ass canceling on her. I am going to go.

[fleetiebelle]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

This would be my first date this year. Overall, this would be my 3rd date in my life.

So was getting asked out by and going out with the Hooters waitress a lie? That was this year.

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by fleetiebelle

So was getting asked out by and going out with the Hooters waitress a lie? That was this year.

Lol I forgot all about her. This would be my second date this year.

[zentropa]

Oy gevalt.

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by zentropa

Oy gevalt.

Oh great. What did I do this time?