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Old 09-16-2012, 10:30 PM
 
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Old 09-17-2012, 02:35 AM
 
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No, I never have been unfaithful in any relationship and not in my past marriage. I believe if you are in a place where you feel you want to have an affair, then you need to first get out of that relationship and leave.
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Old 09-17-2012, 08:19 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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The thing is I think I love my husband but I knew this friend of mind for more than a year an he always had a space in my heart I know what am doing is wrong but my bf is like my soulmate
If that's true, then you are married to the wrong man.

Dig deep, find your integrity and end the marriage before you go one step further.

Your husband deserves better.
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Old 09-17-2012, 08:37 PM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
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I've been 20 years and have never cheated. If I would ever become so disenchanted with my husband that I'd be tempted to cheat, I'd leave my mariage before having sex with another guy. It always blows me away that people are apparently so miserable in their marriages that they cheat. Just divorce!
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Old 09-17-2012, 10:00 PM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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I think wives should always ask for permission instead of hope for forgiveness.
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Old 09-17-2012, 11:13 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Self-reported male and female infidelity rates are about the same. The disagreement is over gender differences in motives/causes. There is no agreement, there.
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Old 09-18-2012, 09:50 AM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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Should a husband really care as long as a wife is still willing to clamor for a relationship with him?
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Old 09-18-2012, 09:54 AM
 
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Self-reported male and female infidelity rates are about the same. The disagreement is over gender differences in motives/causes. There is no agreement, there.
True. But when a man cheats, it's the man's fault. But when a woman cheats, it's the man's fault too.
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Old 09-18-2012, 10:13 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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True. But when a man cheats, it's the man's fault. But when a woman cheats, it's the man's fault too.
Kind of surprised by this post

It's not your style at all to make biased statements like this
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Old 09-18-2012, 10:23 AM
 
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Kind of surprised by this post

It's not your style at all to make biased statements like this
Typically not. But I've seen all kinds of posts that basically say, "He was cold and uncaring. He works all the time. Blah blah blahbity blah. So I went out and got porked by some guy I met at Rotary Club." And then a whole contingent lines up and says, "Shame on your husband. He should have paid more attention to you." Not all, not most, but a goodly number.

But if a guy basically said the same thing for running out and playing Park The Oscar Mayer Car with a cocktail waitress, the lynch mobs would be out in force. Just sayin'.
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