She is still dating me although I made it clear that I won't marry her. (spouse, friends)
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You broke up with her on the 6th and although you "really love her" it didn't take long before you got your knickers all in a twist again over a woman:
Wha???? Come on now. Doesn't the bolded just SCREAM love to you?
Let's face reality here OP...she was "good enough" until something better came along for you as well. That's not love.
I cried the morning after I broke up with my ex-girlfriend, and I cried another time on that weekend. Both my ex-girlfriend and I have active POF profiles and have been looking. On my POF profile, I even have on there that I am in love with my ex-girlfriend. I didn't even meet the recent woman from Sunday until two weeks after I broke up with my ex-girlfriend.
i cried the morning after i broke up with my ex-girlfriend, and i cried another time on that weekend. Both my ex-girlfriend and i have active pof profiles and have been looking. on my pof profile, i even have on there that i am in love with my ex-girlfriend. i didn't even meet the recent woman from sunday until two weeks after i broke up with my ex-girlfriend.
Wow, that's awesome. A whole two weeks before bedding someone else. Impressive. Your concept of being madly in love is, well, just amazing.
Honestly, I feel sad that I was intimate with someone only two weeks after I broke up with my ex-girlfriend. I should have taken a break from dating and intimacy for at least a month after the breakup.
Why do you desire relationships so much OP?
What is their purpose?
I do become lonely at times, especially after working my full-time job. I work two jobs (one full-time and one part-time) and I always regret working my full-time job, so I do become depressed at times. I don't really need the part-time job from a financial standpoint, but I don't know how long my full-time job will be around, so I kept the part-time job. I met many friends over the years from the part-time job which has also become an escape from my full-time day job. If I could have done it all over again, I would have done something else with my life. Honestly, I just need some companionship due to loneliness and regrets.
Honestly, I just need some companionship due to loneliness and regrets.
Being in a relationship is an adjunct to being content within your own skin, not a panacea to fill a gap. Want companionship, get a pet. If you don't have the time for a pet go to the local animal shelter and help out there or volunteer some time with people (young or old) who need companionship and attention. Get a hobby, join some groups of like-minded people. Get to the point of being comfortable with yourself and then you'll be in a far healthier position to be in a relationship. Obviously what you're doing now isn't working and if you don't make some changes the cycle is just going to be a very frustrating repetition.
I cried the morning after I broke up with my ex-girlfriend, and I cried another time on that weekend. Both my ex-girlfriend and I have active POF profiles and have been looking. On my POF profile, I even have on there that I am in love with my ex-girlfriend. I didn't even meet the recent woman from Sunday until two weeks after I broke up with my ex-girlfriend.
What kind of idiot woman dates a man who admits to being still in love with his ex?
Never mind. I answered my own question. An idiot!
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