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Many times on here it's been suggested that men should just go to the backpage or get a hooker. Is it okay then for single women to seek out male escorts for the same thing? Is it as easy? I can't say I haven't considered this option in the past since I can't meet 'regular' men any other ways.
Well male escorts may not be as all over as hookers.
But you can get them. Just like how you hear alot about strip clubs, and you automatically think of women. But men strip as well, and women can go to the clubs.
It's just not talked about too often. And may be a gender thing, like some women that seek, or need escorts are seen as more pathetic than a man seeking a hooker.
Just like how women can say other women are cute, but men taking notice to other men brands them as gay.
Well male escorts may not be as all over as hookers.
But you can get them. Just like how you hear alot about strip clubs, and you automatically think of women. But men strip as well, and women can go to the clubs.
It's just not talked about too often. And may be a gender thing, like some women that seek, or need escorts are seen as more pathetic than a man seeking a hooker.
Just like how women can say other women are cute, but men taking notice to other men brands them as gay.
Do you know of male strippers performing sex services on the side?
If that's what they want, it wont be anybody's business but theirs. Not like they are going to advertise to the world that they did this, this would be their own private business and nobody needs to know about that.
Do you know of male strippers performing sex services on the side?
I have never been to a strip club. There are none where I live, unless I drive at least an hour. But, any strip club may have a guy that will have sex with you on the side, but they will charge you extra for pocket money.
And if you wanna get a professional, then it's probably gonna cost you a good bit of money.
I recommend yahoo or google, and find some places in your area, if you don't already know of any, and see what's available.
If you can't get a relationship, but want a reliable partner, an escort is gonna be your best bet. A ONS won't work, because if you are not sexually active, you may need a patient partner, and a ONS guy will not be patient, or loving. And if you tell him you're a virgin, he'll be more concerned with getting in, and getting off, then bragging to his buddies later. And it just makes you feel neglected and cheap, or unfulfilled.
With an escort, he could at least pretend to care for the money you're paying him. lol And since he's being paid, you're the employer for the night. So, tell him what you want, and how you want it. They're there for you.
Since I considered it myself at one point, and while not the greatest, it can have some pros. But yeah, it comes with cons too.
But hopefully, you can check out some guys, and pick one you're attracted to.
Last edited by HappyRain; 06-16-2014 at 06:47 PM..
Most attractive men will not just sleep with anyone. They have too many choices.
Why couldn't you have sex with someone roughly your own attractiveness?
In answer to your question, OP, no I don't think it's wrong. However, it's most certainly NOT what you should do in your situation, and you will wind up with hurt feelings.
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