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Old 08-09-2014, 06:01 PM
 
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Out of the blue yesterday my wife told me she wants to divorce because she isn't happy. It was shocking and i feel betrayed. Therefore, I never want to see her again. If she doesn't want me then she doesn't get my money so I plan on draining the bank account and running away. My money is the only thing I care about right now.

 
Old 08-09-2014, 06:02 PM
 
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You sound pretty selfish.

Also, running away isn't going to do what you think it's going to do.
 
Old 08-09-2014, 06:03 PM
 
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Okay.
 
Old 08-09-2014, 06:04 PM
 
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You sound pretty selfish.

Also, running away isn't going to do what you think it's going to do.
Prevent her from taking most of my money. She can sell the house. Since she wants to leave me, I don't have to care if she lives or dies.
 
Old 08-09-2014, 06:07 PM
 
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Prevent her from taking most of my money. She can sell the house. Since she wants to leave me, I don't have to care if she lives or dies.
And you sound like an *******.

I was going to ask what you think happened to the marriage, but I think I've got enough answers in your first 2 posts.
 
Old 08-09-2014, 06:09 PM
 
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And you sound like an *******.

I was going to ask what you think happened to the marriage, but I think I've got enough answers in your first 2 posts.
What do you think that I did? I did nothing wrong accept work long hours so we could have financial security.
 
Old 08-09-2014, 06:09 PM
 
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If your name is on the deed to the house, she'll need you to sign paperwork. If you run away, it's easy to track you down, so it's pointless. Get yourself a lawyer (you'll be at the mercy of hers, if you don't), and negotiate that you get the money, she gets the house. Simple. If she's leaving simply because she's not happy, there'll be no animosity unless you introduce some. So negotiations should be relatively amicable.
 
Old 08-09-2014, 06:11 PM
 
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If your name is on the deed to the house, she'll need you to sign paperwork. If you run away, it's easy to track you down, so it's pointless. Get yourself a lawyer (you'll be at the mercy of hers, if you don't), and negotiate that you get the money, she gets the house. Simple. If she's leaving simply because she's not happy, there'll be no animosity unless you introduce some. So negotiations should be relatively amicable.
Amicable? I didn't see this coming. I am more than capable of living off the grid.
 
Old 08-09-2014, 06:13 PM
 
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How long have you been married?
Do you think she would go to counseling?
 
Old 08-09-2014, 06:14 PM
 
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How long have you been married?
Do you think she would go to counseling?
10 years. She doesn't want to go to counseling. Why am I getting hate for trying to protect my money?
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