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10 years. She doesn't want to go to counseling. Why am I getting hate for trying to protect my money?
Because you are a grown man stomping your feet around here like a bratty little child. Go back and read your posts, that's exactly how you come across. I get that your upset but you need to get yourself under control and start thinking logically here.
Running away, although a nice fantasy does not turn out the way you fantasize it might. I would also suggest that you listen to common sense and take care of things with responsibility and maturity.
Protecting your money may make sense to a degree but eventually you'll have to surface and take care of business. Might as well bite the bullet and take care of it before it turns into a hydra that you can't manage.
10 years. She doesn't want to go to counseling. Why am I getting hate for trying to protect my money?
What hate? You're getting sound advice, and concerned questioning. One post is hostile, and you think we're all against you? Lighten up if you want people to help you.
So that's your plan, to live off the grid? OK, then. Go for it.
Running away, although a nice fantasy does not turn out the way you fantasize it might. I would also suggest that you listen to common sense and take care of things with responsibility and maturity.
Protecting your money may make sense to a degree but eventually you'll have to surface and take care of business. Might as well bite the bullet and take care of it before it turns into a hydra that you can't manage.
I can keep my money if I run away. What would happen if I do run away?
Write up a notorized statement giving her full ownership of the house, then cut a trail? Or give her half the money, go buy yourself a chainsaw...and cut the house in half and tell her she can have half of that too!
Because you are a grown man stomping your feet around here like a bratty little child. Go back and read your posts, that's exactly how you come across. I get that your upset but you need to get yourself under control and start thinking logically here.
Here's my logic. How do I best hold onto my money? By depriving her of it. How do I do that? Draining the bank account. How to I make sure the money is never found? Skip town. I refuse to let her win.
I think you are getting hate because that is usually the first thing men say. At least in my case.
I was even told I would be kill before I got half of my ex's things.
It took me 10 long years to get a divorce.
Here's my logic. How do I best hold onto my money? By depriving her of it. How do I do that? Draining the bank account. How to I make sure the money is never found? Skip town. I refuse to let her win.
If it's your money only then it's in an account that has your name on it only and you have a prenup in place. Did you keep separate finances? If not, what portion is yours and what is hers? You need legal advice. Running away from your problems isn't going to help you.
If it's your money only then it's in an account that has your name on it only. Did you keep separate finances? If not, what portion is your and what is hers? You need legal advice. Running away from your problems isn't going to help you.
Here's my logic. How do I best hold onto my money? By depriving her of it. How do I do that? Draining the bank account. How to I make sure the money is never found? Skip town. I refuse to let her win.
How do you know she's not using her card to make withdrawals from your account as we speak?
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