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Judge Judy always tells women in a bad relationship on her show"You picked them"
I do not understand that.
Let me explain....
How can women be the choosers if MEN approach women they like 90% of the time?
Isn"t it men who really do the choosing?
If a woman does not have any man approach her,then how is she the "chooser"?
Most women i know who do not get chosen(approached) do not pursue any relationship esp if nobody chooses her.
For women who do get approached,and only gets approached by bums,then how is she doing the choosing IF only the bums approach her?
Are not the bums choosing her for a potential relationship?
People choose to be with one another. Just because men approach doesn't mean that women are obligated to be with them, and vice versa. You choose to be with the person you are with, 100 percent of the time. You always have the option of being alone and not being with a loser. That goes for men AND women.
Judge Judy always tells women in a bad relationship on her show"You picked them"
I do not understand that.
Let me explain....
How can women be the choosers if MEN approach women they like 90% of the time?
Isn"t it men who really do the choosing?
If a woman does not have any man approach her,then how is she the "chooser"?
Most women i know who do not get chosen(approached) do not pursue any relationship esp if nobody chooses her.
For women who do get approached,and only gets approached by bums,then how is she doing the choosing IF only the bums approach her?
Are not the bums choosing her for a potential relationship?
Two men can woo a single woman till they're blue in the face. She will either choose one, or she won't.
Yes, the man has chosen to approach her, but unless we're still clubbing women and dragging them back to our dens, she has to choose to be with him or not.
How can women be the choosers if MEN approach women they like 90% of the time?
Isn"t it men who really do the choosing?
If a woman does not have any man approach her,then how is she the "chooser"?
Most women i know who do not get chosen(approached) do not pursue any relationship esp if nobody chooses her.
For women who do get approached,and only gets approached by bums,then how is she doing the choosing IF only the bums approach her?
Maybe women should approach men more then?
Of course they won't do that, because their fragile female egos can't face public rejection instead of that plausible deniability BS that women use to save face such as "oh I wasn't interested anyways" or "I was just being friendly", etc.
Judge Judy always tells women in a bad relationship on her show"You picked them"
I do not understand that.
Let me explain....
How can women be the choosers if MEN approach women they like 90% of the time?
Isn"t it men who really do the choosing?
If a woman does not have any man approach her,then how is she the "chooser"?
Most women i know who do not get chosen(approached) do not pursue any relationship esp if nobody chooses her.
For women who do get approached,and only gets approached by bums,then how is she doing the choosing IF only the bums approach her?
Are not the bums choosing her for a potential relationship?
Women ultimately are the ones who decide by saying yes or no to the men who approach them. So judge Judy is right by saying you "chose" them. When most men approach women it's more of numbers game. It's a law of averages, the more women you approach the better your chances of getting one. If you don't like the dating dynamics the way they are, change it by approaching men you like, instead of waiting around and complaining like most women how no men approach them.
Of course they won't do that, because their fragile female egos can't face public rejection instead of that plausible deniability BS that women use to save face such as "oh I wasn't interested anyways" or "I was just being friendly", etc.
Women are definitely the choosers in the west. All they really have to do is go online. No matter what they look like, they will be flooded with messages. They could be ugly with a million kids and can still turn down decent looking guys with good jobs.
If a woman does not get approached enough, she just needs to go online. This is how so many undesirable women get top of the line boyfriends. It's very easy for women out there.
That's like saying a company isn't the chooser because potential employees apply to them and not vice versa
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