My GF still cares for her Ex. (relation, honest, people)
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You should have gotten sharp with her that night, flashed some anger, she would have gotten all apologetic...And then you knock the bottom out of it.
Instead you ignored her phone calls for a week like a 14 yr old girl. Next you'll go home, pout for a week while she kisses your ass, and then you'll go back to normal.
She treated you that way because she thinks of you as the kind of man who takes it, and you probably are...You deserve each other.
Probably, nothing much will actually change, except that we both are on the same page.
Except that "she isn't happy about it" so you really are not on the same page at all, are you? She is agreeing to your terms now, out of guilt I suppose (although I no longer feel that she has anything to be guilty about).
Enjoy your FWB while it lasts.
Last edited by Butterflyfish; 10-11-2014 at 03:08 AM..
Update to my situation. She has been going above and beyond to show that I'm the one she wants. She has given me a thousand assurances and actions, to show that she has zero feelings for Ray and that it was only a combination of alcohol and the marriage ceremony, that made her emotional and she instigated NONE of it. I also have talked to 3 people who heard her tell Ray to stop, including Ray's wife, Betty. She has told me that she will not contact anyone from the other side of the family, without letting me know about it, and will not contact Ray in any way, except with my approval.
I asked her about she and I having a FWB relationship for the time being, and she agreed, but was not happy about it, but understands that she has to rebuild trust, so she is OK with it , as a temporary situation, but not as a long term solution.
I have talked to several people who know both of them , and 100% of them say that there is nothing between them and hasn't been, since the divorce.
I have no intention of monitoring her behavior, so I have adopted a "wait and see" attitude, for the foreseeable future, until I am satisfied that everything is as she has said.
So you're canvassing all of her friends for info on whether or not she is trustworthy, and she's not going to contact anyone from the other side of the family without your approval? What a waste of time for both of you to drag out this failing relationship. Let it go now.
So you're canvassing all of her friends for info on whether or not she is trustworthy, and she's not going to contact anyone from the other side of the family without your approval? What a waste of time for both of you to drag out this failing relationship. Let it go now.
If I don't try to find out, then how am I going to know? And if I don't ask, how will I find out? You think I'm supposed to believe her without proof, considering her actions? I"m not that gullible.
You don't read the posts, then make half-assed comments. Predictable and boring.
Yeah I was right tho' huh?
I would have handled it right away. But not you, a 14yr old girl deep down. That explains the long drawn out story and attention seeking. Most men aren't going to go to her mom, sister and friends for intel.
Any updates from the OP? Last time I checked, he was going to work things out with her. (I would've done exactly the same even though i am aware of the dire consequences)
I would have handled it right away. But not you, a 14yr old girl deep down. That explains the long drawn out story and attention seeking. Most men aren't going to go to her mom, sister and friends for intel.
Not that this was ever a real story.
Well, when you reach puberty, you can show us how its done.
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What a waste of time for both of you to drag out this failing relationship. Let it go now.
