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I'm sure you'll get answers all over the map, and I can only answer for me. In my purest, most simple answer, I think yes, she abused her position. But my qualitative answer is that I enjoyed her admiration of my form. I think most men would agree, but I can't speak for them all. Swap out the sweet, chubby, 50-something for some young, hot nurse with big boobs and... well you can see where this is going.
Lol. No, no, I understand. It's just like what you're trying to get at, I think, that men just look at it differently.
Do you feel that she was deriving sexual pleasure by touching you?
I don't know, really. She didn't touch me in any way I wouldn't have expected in that setting. She definitely seemed to enjoy what she saw, but if she enjoyed the touching part of her job she didn't reveal her hand at all.
I don't know, really. She didn't touch me in any way I wouldn't have expected in that setting. She definitely seemed to enjoy what she saw, but if she enjoyed the touching part of her job she didn't reveal her hand at all.
Ok, by that I mean she didn't say anything about how much fun it was to touch and handle me. She didn't touch me in a sexually inappropriate manner, either. Her comments were specifically visually oriented.
Ok, by that I mean she didn't say anything about how much fun it was to touch and handle me. She didn't touch me in a sexually inappropriate manner, either. Her comments were specifically visually oriented.
Lol, oh, okay, then... I'm sure the medical board will be in complete agreement, lol.
I drove home from work and missed some of the action on this thread! I'll back track but wanted to raise a question.
CarbonCounty, 2Mares, I am sharing this experience specifically to hear your thoughts. Others as well, but these two most of all.
Back in June I had a vasectomy. (I know, that's a horrible way to start a story. Sorry. ) The nurse who prepped me was a plump woman in her late 50s, maybe even 60 or so years old. She was certainly attractive at her age, but I'm 34, so when I say "attractive" I mean in a sweet older lady kind of way. At any rate, we were alone and there I was sprawled out on her table. I was wearing work out shorts and she told me to lift my butt so she could pull them off. When she did she smiled and said, "It's beautiful." She made a few more comments along these lines. She referred to me being "young and vibrant" and "healing quickly" so I could "resume activities" with my wife. When she escorted me back to my wife she told her I was "one of the most beautiful she's ever seen" and that my wife was a lucky woman.
Now I can honestly say I was surprised by the edginess in many of her comments. I'd argue they were not professional. I think she definitely objectified me. I was a patient, a little loopy from the valium they tell you to take prior to the party starting, and in a vulnerable position.
Do you two agree? Do the specifics of my condition qualify this as "objectifying" by your standards?
Yes. It sounds like she did not see you as a person, just something attached to your apparently beautiful man part.
When I travel, I get women that are attracted to me for being white, having blue eyes or being American.
It kind of annoys me to be honest.
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Ok, by that I mean she didn't say anything about how much fun it was to touch and handle me. She didn't touch me in a sexually inappropriate manner, either. Her comments were specifically visually oriented.
) The nurse who prepped me was a plump woman in her late 50s, maybe even 60 or so years old. She was certainly attractive at her age, but I'm 34, so when I say "attractive" I mean in a sweet older lady kind of way. At any rate, we were alone and there I was sprawled out on her table. I was wearing work out shorts and she told me to lift my butt so she could pull them off. When she did she smiled and said, "It's beautiful." She made a few more comments along these lines. She referred to me being "young and vibrant" and "healing quickly" so I could "resume activities" with my wife. When she escorted me back to my wife she told her I was "one of the most beautiful she's ever seen" and that my wife was a lucky woman. 
