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spoken like a defense lawyer, or someone who had to hire one recently.
All it takes is one false allegation to land a guy in jail and his life be ruined. The OP is playing with fire, especially in this day and age. The times of chilling out and taking a chance are over.
I have a question, maybe it's a dumb one, but when a woman living alone invites her date to come inside...does she wants sex involved?
What do you think?
It depends. What time of day is it? If it's daytime, or dinnertime, no, not in most cases. I'd shudder to think that just because I invited a guy over for tea and a convo, or to see my art collection, or to work on a project together, that he assumed I wanted to be jumped. Really, people, it's terrifying to think that most men out there would assume that, so we women can't make a friendly gesture. That's insane!
It is a sign they trust you, not that sex is Definitively going to happen.
It's an invitation to ultimately ending up having sex, but not a hit out of the park
This.
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Originally Posted by Chowhound;
Maybe... but one thing for sure, go in it without the expectation of sex. This is one area that she needs to lead on. If she is looking for sex, she needs to make it known.....
And this.
The OP, and apparently others, would have us believe that men can't be trusted. This is the message that is being sent on this thread, loud and clear. Think about it guys, is that the message you want to send to women? Do we need to barricade ourselves in against you? We can't ever trust you to come by and hang out? I don't care to live in that kind of world. But if you insist, from this day forward I'll never again invite a guy over unless I'm so into him that it's about sex.
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all i was saying is that you go for it, your a man, if she turns you down then oh well nothing you can really do. she cant fault you for trying
and you dont have to stay around to "watch a movie"
feel free to leave... you might not be in a movie watching mood, in fact probably be better to go do some laps after you just got rejected
No. If you're a man, you don't go for it. You don't behave like an animal, you behave like an intelligent, thoughtful human, and wait for a cue from her. You're a man, not a bull in a china shop. Hopefully.
Personally, I don't invite a dude in if I don't want him to stay awhile. But no, I don't think you should assume anything. If you're really not sure, ask. If a woman gets upset that you didn't magically know what she was thinking, she's probably a drama queen in other regards too.
Personally, I don't invite a dude in if I don't want him to stay awhile. But no, I don't think you should assume anything. If you're really not sure, ask. If a woman gets upset that you didn't magically know what she was thinking, she's probably a drama queen in other regards too.
I can see it now:
HER: Hey, thanks for the museum tour and the walk in the park afterwards. Wanna come over for tea/coffee and cake? I made a cake yesterday.
HIM: Is this for sex?
HER: WHAAT?!?? I said CAKE! Tea and chocolate cake! Oh, FORGET IT! And get away from me, I have a taser!
If the world has come to this, it's a sad world, indeed.
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This is another thread where the clueless dudes here are giving all of dudekind a bad rep.
There needs to be a school for the clueless ones, like the old "finishing schools" they had for women, to learn the social graces. To teach guys how to read body language, how to act in certain situations, what not to say, etc. Where are their dads all their lives up to HS grad? Did some of the clueless dudes on our forum have absentee dads?
Or mothers? I tell my teen-aged son how girls do and do not like to be treated.
I suspect this is rare, among moms.
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I suspect this is rare, among moms.
