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Old 01-07-2015, 08:21 PM
 
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At least u did something nice for her. Good karma.
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Old 01-07-2015, 09:01 PM
 
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I'm sure she'd be delighted to this thread OP.
If the girls I dated could read all the stuff I've posted on various forums I would never get a date. Of course if everyone could read everyone else's thoughts then we would all have a lot less people in our lives. That's why I love these forums. Anonymouty and you can ask stuff you would not ask your friends.
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Old 01-08-2015, 02:48 AM
 
Location: IN>Germany>ND>OH>TX>CA>Currently NoVa and a Vacation Lake House in PA
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If the girls I dated could read all the stuff I've posted on various forums I would never get a date. Of course if everyone could read everyone else's thoughts then we would all have a lot less people in our lives. That's why I love these forums. Anonymouty and you can ask stuff you would not ask your friends.
Trust me, the real you shines through eventually. Good luck with that.
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Old 01-08-2015, 02:51 AM
 
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I don't think she should have let me drive her home if she had no intentions of going out with me again.
Because accepting favours in your world means they come with conditions?

Some of us offer assistance to others for the sake of simply doing good unto others. No strings. No expectations.

Perhaps next time you offer a good deed to another - you will inform them verbally of the fine print in the contract.
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Old 01-08-2015, 07:00 AM
 
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Maybe she didn't know until after the ride home.

Maybe you're a terrible driver, or your car smelled bad, or you said something that turned her off, or maybe she was on the fence and didn't figure out until she got home that she wasn''t into you but she isn't mature enough to TELL you that, so she ghosted.

We could speculate all night, but according to another thread I'm unfortunately involved in over in the Non_romantic relationships forum, half of America thinks it's perfectly OK to ignore a simple text.
This!
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Old 01-08-2015, 07:03 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I don't think she should have let me drive her home if she had no intentions of going out with me again. Discuss.

Your thinking is broken. /discussion
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Old 01-08-2015, 12:57 PM
 
Location: Kaliforneea
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If the girls I dated could read all the stuff I've posted on various forums I would never get a date. Of course if everyone could read everyone else's thoughts then we would all have a lot less people in our lives. That's why I love these forums. Anonymouty and you can ask stuff you would not ask your friends.
Amen to that.
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Old 01-08-2015, 03:19 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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So what did she text you now???

Does she want to see you again?
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Old 01-08-2015, 03:55 PM
 
Location: Springfield
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So what did she text you now???
She needed a ride somewhere.
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Old 01-08-2015, 04:31 PM
 
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Trust me, the real you shines through eventually. Good luck with that.
That just means she will like me even more than she already does.
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