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Old 01-12-2015, 05:57 PM
 
Location: The #1 sunshine state, Arizona.
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Sad news for you, honey. If a man is keeping a relationship "private" the relationship isn't all that. He doesn't think enough of you to flaunt you in public, and he will be moving on when he finds something better.

Men in serious relationships don't hide their partner.

You know him well enough to be sure he isn't married? Doesn't have a second "hidden" relationship with some one else?
I thought the same thing, if he is trying to keep the relationship private, he is keeping his options open.
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Old 01-12-2015, 05:58 PM
 
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sounds like "Brendon and I"

we get it, we get it

you have a *bf* congrats!
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Old 01-13-2015, 10:31 AM
 
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My bf and I have been together for 5 months before we became in a relationship were friends. We have alot of common friends. So these people know my bf well. They know that my bf is vert picky who to date. They have tried to hook him up to their friends and my bf did not want to date any of them.

My bf and I decided to keep our relationship very private. Only family and close friends know about our relationship status. But some of our friends and acquaintances are now questioning about what are we. Ive been told that people ask people about my bf and I status and that some of the girls are jealous of me. My bf is a great catch and i know he loves me. He's faithful. He treats me well. He has a great career. Im consider myself very lucky to have him in my life and other have said that too.

My question is, how do you deal with jealous people? People who are jealous of your relationship? Thanks.
You are not disclosing that you are in a relationship so how are they coming across as jealous of your relationship?? Maybe they are just interested in him, because he appears to still be available. I think you two should come out with the truth, that you are in a relationship...The rest will follow.
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Old 01-13-2015, 10:44 AM
 
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Ive been told that people ask people about my bf and I status and that some of the girls are jealous of me.My bf is a great catch and i know he loves me. He's faithful. He treats me well. He has a great career. Im consider myself very lucky to have him in my life and other have said that too.

My question is, how do you deal with jealous people? People who are jealous of your relationship? Thanks.
That you've "been told some of the girls are jealous" doesn't make it so. Why do you think you need to "deal with" these hypothetical girls?
I agree with other posters that the real problem is that you know other girls have good reason to assume your great catch is uncaught.
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Old 01-13-2015, 10:52 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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I'm still trying to figure out how they are jealous if they don't know.



I'm assuming the OP is the type of person to just feed into rumors instead of deciphering things on her own.
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Old 01-13-2015, 11:19 AM
 
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