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Old 10-30-2018, 12:29 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Starting a thread based on your perceived attractiveness speaks volumes...
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Old 10-30-2018, 03:00 AM
 
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This is your second thread about how good looking you are.
https://www.city-data.com/forum/relat...esnt-seem.html

I am good looking guy with M3... Perhaps that's your problem?
Try to humble yourself and see if that helps.

Research finds, again, that men tend to overestimate their own attractiveness.
Yup, the male ego is a funny thing....
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/b...ing-they-think

If you meet a guy and you can tell he thinks he breathes wonders and craps miracles, and he knows he's really good looking, most likely he will be bad in bed.

https://www.nantucketchronicle.com/f...are-bad-in-bed

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Funny because most of my friends don't even know I own an M3. I'm not running around flaunting myself and being flashy if that's what you're getting at. I'm actually a very humble person.

And when have I ever said that I think I'm the ****? I actually don't think that highly of myself at all. Its annoying because I get people that always tell me that I shouldn't have a hard time dating because I'm attractive. So all I'm trying to do is narrow down things to see if it's my approach or personality. Whats up with all the trash talk? Make you feel better?

And for the people asking about when I said "put together", I don't know what they meant. That's just what I was told. I don't wear flashy clothes (not my thing). Most of the time I'm wearing Levi's, sneakers, a hoodie and don't even match.
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Old 10-30-2018, 03:02 AM
 
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Starting a thread based on your perceived attractiveness speaks volumes...
Again, not MY perceived attractiveness. I don't believe in that because people have different types. A person that's attractive to one, may not be attractive to others. Maybe you should reread my original post before commenting.
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Old 10-30-2018, 03:06 AM
 
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Originally Posted by elnina View Post
This is your second thread about how good looking you are.
https://www.city-data.com/forum/relat...esnt-seem.html

I am good looking guy with M3... Perhaps that's your problem?
Try to humble yourself and see if that helps.

Research finds, again, that men tend to overestimate their own attractiveness.
Yup, the male ego is a funny thing....
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/b...ing-they-think

If you meet a guy and you can tell he thinks he breathes wonders and craps miracles, and he knows he's really good looking, most likely he will be bad in bed.

https://www.nantucketchronicle.com/f...are-bad-in-bed

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Funny, maybe the women on social media platforms and OLD should apply this article to themselves. 90% of women posting on Instagram, snap, blah blah is all about validation from others.
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Old 10-30-2018, 03:09 AM
 
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I came here for advice and insight. Mostly all of the posting were attacks. Thanks to the people that did give good insight.
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Old 10-30-2018, 04:14 AM
 
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Do you say anything to them when they do this? That's incredibly rude.
That’s when he should thank them and introduce his girlfriend.

“That is very kind. Have you met my beautiful girlfriend?”
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Old 10-30-2018, 04:33 AM
 
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That’s when he should thank them and introduce his girlfriend.

“That is very kind. Have you met my beautiful girlfriend?”
I've actually done this before lol.
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Old 10-30-2018, 06:42 AM
 
Location: Colorado Springs
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I prefer to date average looking guys who aren't stuck on themselves. I remember years ago when I was in my 20's dating a great looking guy. We were outside at a park and he was staring into my eyes. I thought "how romantic he is" - until I realized he was checking himself out in my sunglasses! True story. We broke up shortly after that when I realized how shallow he was.
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Old 10-30-2018, 07:32 AM
 
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Starting a thread based on your perceived attractiveness speaks volumes...
Lol. This.
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Old 10-30-2018, 07:32 AM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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I came here for advice and insight. Mostly all of the posting were attacks. Thanks to the people that did give good insight.


Ive read through all of the posts and while you may not agree with all of them they were not attacking you at all. Maybe that's an issue you should consider as well.
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