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Also, she might feel quite insulted that you want to do that. Some women can't handle it either.
You are smart not to get your friend involved. Now be a good friend and find him a nice woman who just wants a one night stand so that he can scratch his hetero itch!
I don't think it would bother me to see, especially if it was him because there is no "ick" factor with him and I know she isn't going to like run away with him. With someone else there would be no jealousy but I would be bothered from a hygiene stand point if he was some random.
I don't think she would be offended, she would probsbly say yes..she's adventurous like that
On the scale of kinky, we have done a lot more extreme things and she has seen me hook up with another girl in front of her. I would be scared that she would wanna see me and him do things because I do know that she watches gay porn and I wouldn't do it personally just because I don't like it.
He was at my house until an hour ago, I picked him up last night and he stayed on my couch and had breakfast with me and my Maria before she went to work. I spoke to him about it and I told him that if he wanted to find a girl to "experiment" with that will be easy enough because I know plenty of women in the "adult entertainment" world since my brother is dating one..he declined which solidified my belief that he had no interest in women and just wanted to have a shot at getting some with me.
For the person who asked above, she's 30 and me and him are 29 going on 30 (two days apart)
Wow! This reeks of complications, trust issues and all sorts of other problems. First off, why be engaged at all? Why entertain the idea of being in a 3-way if you truly love your fiance? It doesn't matter if you don't touch that guy during the sex. How are you going to feel if she agrees to it and you are seeing her and another man have at it in your presence? Maybe you will initially get aroused seeing them have sex together, however, remember this.....you were the one who agreed it is now acceptable for her to sleep with another man and you are okay with it. If she chooses to think it is alright to do so with someone else (in or out of your vision) you started these balls rolling.
If it were me and the "love of my life" brought up a proposition such as that, I would tell him first off that I am not going to help a gay man figure out his sexual preferences. This would be followed with a quickly delivered word to him...."Goodbye".
I don't think it would bother me to see, especially if it was him because there is no "ick" factor with him and I know she isn't going to like run away with him. With someone else there would be no jealousy but I would be bothered from a hygiene stand point if he was some random.
I don't think she would be offended, she would probsbly say yes..she's adventurous like that
On the scale of kinky, we have done a lot more extreme things and she has seen me hook up with another girl in front of her. I would be scared that she would wanna see me and him do things because I do know that she watches gay porn and I wouldn't do it personally just because I don't like it.
He was at my house until an hour ago, I picked him up last night and he stayed on my couch and had breakfast with me and my Maria before she went to work. I spoke to him about it and I told him that if he wanted to find a girl to "experiment" with that will be easy enough because I know plenty of women in the "adult entertainment" world since my brother is dating one..he declined which solidified my belief that he had no interest in women and just wanted to have a shot at getting some with me.
For the person who asked above, she's 30 and me and him are 29 going on 30 (two days apart)
IMO, you're all bi-curious at the least and more likely, bi-sexual. Please practice safe sex and wrap it up
Wow! This reeks of complications, trust issues and all sorts of other problems. First off, why be engaged at all? Why entertain the idea of being in a 3-way if you truly love your fiance? It doesn't matter if you don't touch that guy during the sex. How are you going to feel if she agrees to it and you are seeing her and another man have at it in your presence? Maybe you will initially get aroused seeing them have sex together, however, remember this.....you were the one who agreed it is now acceptable for her to sleep with another man and you are okay with it. If she chooses to think it is alright to do so with someone else (in or out of your vision) you started these balls rolling.
If it were me and the "love of my life" brought up such a proposition such as that, I would tell him first off that I am not going to help a gay man figure out his sexual preferences. This would be followed with a quickly delivered word to him...."Goodbye".
Well youre totally entitled to that. However me and her have brought other women into the bedroom several times etc. it's just a fetish thing, we are just having fun..we don't have sex with others behind our respective backs and if either of us wanted to we would end it.
There is a difference between a 3 way and cheating, she has seen me sleep with someone else but she knows I wouldn't ever do it without her.
She would probably be into it, I was more worried that he would get all emotional.
Me and her have a very unique and good relationship, we aren't "swingers" or whatever but even if we were that doesn't negate our feelings for each other. I get turned on by seeing her with someone else and from our previous experiences with another chick so does she.
IMO, you're all bi-curious at the least and more likely, bi-sexual. Please practice safe sex and wrap it up
He's already said like a bazillion times that he tried it and didn't like it. That would make him decidedly NOT bisexual.
OP, maybe he doesn't want to sleep with an adult entertainer? Some people tend to have preconceived notions about them. If you're sure that it was just about you, then it's definitely good that you decided not to do it.
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I don't want to have sex with a man so by definition not bisexual
Have definitely been bicurious before and acted on it as a teen, not my thing.
She is probably bi, I don't care.
Safe sex always with others, me and her don't but when we bring in a third (always a girl previously) we always used condoms
Gangbang, a terminology you brought up in this thread, post #29 (and no one needs to Google it, it's more than self explanatory), is something you get off on. You stated you would get off seeing your fiance get f'ed by another guy, in this case, it would have been your gay best friend. Personally I see it as the woman getting off big time by the two men she's having a three-way with, not one of the two men involved, getting turned on. That would indicate that the 2 men, getting turned on, are turned on by the whole sexual experience and that includes, them.
Yes, your fiance is Bi-sexual, that's fine. You are more than bi-curious, from what I have read hear. No judgement, just again, please practice safe sex.
Gangbang, a terminology you brought up in this thread, post #29 (and no one needs to Google it, it's more than self explanatory), is something you get off on. You stated you would get off seeing your fiance get f'ed by another guy, in this case, it would have been your gay best friend. Personally I see it as the woman getting off big time by the two men she's having a three-way with, not one of the two men involved, getting turned on. That would indicate that the 2 men, getting turned on, are turned on by the whole sexual experience and that includes, them.
Yes, your fiance is Bi-sexual, that's fine. You are more than bi-curious, from what I have read hear. No judgement, just again, please practice safe sex.
She would get turned on, or else she wouldn't do it but yes I would definitely get my rocks off watching..:the same reason that watching straight porn with a man screwing a woman doesn't make you gay.
I don't see how I am even bi curious unless the definition has changed (some have, for instance when I was a kid qu**r was a bad word that people used to insult my best friend with, now it's apparently not a bad word - LGBTQ) I'm not curious, as stated I have done things to satiate my curiousity and figured out quite quickly it wasn't for me: I don't want to penetrate him, get or give a bj, or kiss him. I don't get how that in itself makes me gay? By definition that makes me not gay..hell I wish I swung both ways...gays have it easy in the sex department all you have to do is go on an application these days
Person 1 regrets it all when persons 2&3 fall in love and move away together.
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