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Old 04-14-2015, 11:55 AM
 
Location: PANAMA
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Isn't that the definition of a golddigger?
The golddigger is after money...the "man eater" is not necessarily after your wallet, she just want to have sex because of "revenge" of an ex, or she just enjoy the attention, she likes the guy because she has heard about his prowess on the sack, or anything like it. However doesn't want the commitment.

Usually, however, both terms can be similar.

On any case, in my opinion, honesty is the best policy.
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Old 04-14-2015, 12:26 PM
 
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The golddigger is after money...the "man eater" is not necessarily after your wallet, she just want to have sex because of "revenge" of an ex, or she just enjoy the attention, she likes the guy because she has heard about his prowess on the sack, or anything like it. However doesn't want the commitment.
I am not sure if a woman would really have to fool a man or something to get sex, she can easily get it. Maybe for revenge or the attention. As for a woman being a goldigger, it can be relative. A woman may simply be looking for a provider, a “real man”, the future of her children, a generous man, etc. therefore the term goldigger might not apply?
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Old 04-14-2015, 12:33 PM
 
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Charlie Harper from Two and a half men.
Joey Tribbiani from Friends.

Those two are prime examples of womanizers.
Jon Hamm's Donald Draper of AMC's "Mad Men" would make a very respectable example, as well.
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Old 04-14-2015, 01:03 PM
 
Location: PANAMA
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I am not sure if a woman would really have to fool a man or something to get sex, she can easily get it. Maybe for revenge or the attention. As for a woman being a goldigger, it can be relative. A woman may simply be looking for a provider, a “real manâ€, the future of her children, a generous man, etc. therefore the term goldigger might not apply?
Is she after money? That's the main thing.

I understand a woman wants some financial security, however best relationship is when BOTH put money on a "life project" which is the institution of marriage.

Some women like to get a rich guy to be at home doin' nothin' and believe I've heard women saying they want that kind of men.

"I want my hubby to provide me with EVERYTHING..." Heard that...often!


Hence the term "sugardaddy" specially when it's an old fart. Who can still function with Viagra, but you know there is "real love" there.
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Old 04-14-2015, 01:41 PM
 
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The definition of "womanizer" varies a lot, but all women hate "womanizers" nevertheless they tend to create those.

For what I've told a womanizer is a man who "uses" women, promises everything to them and when things begins to get serious, he pulls off.

Basically a "womanizer" is a guy who just sleeps around and never gets in a committed relationship. He pretends he wants one, but when the moment of truth arrives, he never gets into one. The woman thinks she is the one...but no...the womanizer just went away.

But the fault is on the woman mostly because she is also trying to get him into a relationship, she is with him because he has a nice car, a nice apartment, so she says to herself "I have quite a catch here". But the "womanizer" knows these things as well so he uses that to his advantage. However there will be a time when the womanizer gets screwed as well...what goes around comes around.

So what's your take on the matter ladies?
My first thought is where the hell did you get your super powers?!!!
You know what ALL women hate, you know what is in ALL women's minds, what they are thinking, what their intentions are. I am impressed sir.

What am I thinking right now?
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Old 04-14-2015, 01:43 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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What am I thinking right now?

That you're super annoyed with some of the "all women" posts on this forum?
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Old 04-14-2015, 01:48 PM
 
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Typically I've found that the terms "promiscuous," "sl*t" and "womanizer" are used to describe someone who has had three or more sexual partners than the speaker.
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Old 04-14-2015, 01:49 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Typically I've found that the terms "promiscuous," "sl*t" and "womanizer" are used to describe someone who has had three or more sexual partners than the speaker.

Which would be a grand total of 3 in most cases in this forum.
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Old 04-14-2015, 02:13 PM
 
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Which would be a grand total of 3 in most cases in this forum.
Bwahahahahahahahah.

You know, I think the thing is that it's nothing more than common sense, yet those posters you describe can't accept it. Instead of taking good care of yourself, not being an a-hole or a doormat, learning the art of conversation, and actually getting out of the house, they want the secret incantation or something. There's no secret incantation.
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Old 04-14-2015, 05:04 PM
 
Location: PANAMA
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My first thought is where the hell did you get your super powers?!!!
You know what ALL women hate, you know what is in ALL women's minds, what they are thinking, what their intentions are. I am impressed sir.

What am I thinking right now?
You just have to listen carefully my friend...listen carefully to ANY women's gathering and you will gain knowledge.

"Womanizer" is a term used in a derogatory way...any way you look at it.
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