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I have dated guys with over 100 women under their belt and had no issue with it. Oh they were super experienced, so that means they are a bad person and will cheat on me??? Give me a break!
I agree with all of that. I'm not sure where anybody is reading into this that that I'm shaming her. I didn't say that. I simply said that there is an incompatibility.
Well with the OP, you stated her history "Was not ok." Many will be offended, because it seems like you're putting down people who do have a good number of partners, or known to do a good bit of experimenting.
You have to be careful with how you come off with, again, sex, politics and religion, because all are topics that can get very heated when feel someone is putting down how they see and do things with regards to the 3.
Wow, that's quite a detailed and shocking conversation to have after three years with no idea. Astonishing, really.
I mean, really? One would think that if such a thing were a huge deal, OP, that you would have inquired about it years ago. Not three years into the relationship.
The thing that a lot of people that claim to be liberal and opened minded don't get is that being open minded is actually a two way street, it mean you are "open minded" that means accepting that others have differing points of views...
I'm truly open minded in that I get both sides of things, the OP doesn't care for her "liberated sexual past".... I don't necessarily agree with him, but i'm "open minded" enough to see his POV....
I think that liberals, and I'm not picking you here personally... I find that they aren't as liberal as they like to think that they are.....
The thing that a lot of people that claim to be liberal and opened minded don't get is that being open minded is actually a two way street, it mean you are "open minded" that means accepting that others have differing points of views...
I'm truly open minded in that I get both sides of things, the OP doesn't care for her "liberated sexual past".... I don't necessarily agree with him, but i'm "open minded" enough to see his POV....
I think that liberals, and I'm not picking you here personally... I find that they aren't as liberal as they like to think that they are.....
Well that's very mature. And that's exactly right. People have preferences and opinions, and, although I left it a bit late, I finally found out what I should have asked about long ago, and I've learned my lesson, which is to establish these things early on before both people waste their time. I take responsibility and I won't let it happen again.
As for liberals, yes they are very keen for people to be open minded enough to agree with them on everything. Their motto seems to be : do what you like as long as it's what we like.
The thing that a lot of people that claim to be liberal and opened minded don't get is that being open minded is actually a two way street, it mean you are "open minded" that means accepting that others have differing points of views...
I'm truly open minded in that I get both sides of things, the OP doesn't care for her "liberated sexual past".... I don't necessarily agree with him, but i'm "open minded" enough to see his POV....
I think that liberals, and I'm not picking you here personally... I find that they aren't as liberal as they like to think that they are.....
I see this alot. Many are all for sexual freedom. Sex with many partners, different kinds of sex. That's fine + good. But they aren't so open-minded with conservative. The virgin-shaming. Calling someone a prude, or saying they're sexually repressed, they're not living life to the fullest, have issues with people, they're naive, etc. They're just as bad and judgmental, but just on the other side with it.
I see this alot. Many are all for sexual freedom. Sex with many partners, different kinds of sex. That's fine + good. But they aren't so open-minded with conservative. The virgin-shaming. Calling someone a prude, or saying they're sexually repressed, they're not living life to the fullest, have issues with people, they're naive, etc. They're just as bad and judgmental, but just on the other side with it.
Seen online alot.
I agree completely..... I consider myself to be more liberal than conservative, but I've never openly shamed someone of either stripe. Never criticized someone's sexual past either way, whether they've been with a lot of people or have been with none.
I find that it actually takes more work to be sexually conservative as opposed to the other way... LOL...and on that level I sometimes give props to people that want to wait for marriage...I've openly said it's not for me and that I've never waited longer than a month or so for a woman to have sex with me cause I don't roll that way, but for those that do... cool.... way more power to them.......
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