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I've become more and more insecure with myself with each day that passes. My husband skips sex with me because he's "too tired" from work but yet I always discover that he watches porn. And it's always the same type of porn, "big ass", "big booty". I'm not a bad lay at all!! Maybe it's because I'm pregnant and became unattractive to him? Idk, but he doesn't seem to care how much this hurts me. It's not the whole porn watching thing that I have a problem with, it's that I feel he chooses it over me. Now I've become so obsessed with getting plastic surgery after I have this baby, maybe this way he won't have the need to look at other woman in that way... Sigh. Am I over reacting???
"Boyfriend" In the title you say "husband".....?
Think about this....If you feel insecure because he watches porn.....having breast augmentation is not going to change that....
You simply need someone that makes you feel special, and is not watching porn, rather than spending time with you.
It won't work. Porn offers a vast cornucopia of female flesh in a variety of forms. No plastic surgery can complete with that.
Soooo....... you have a rocky relationship and chose to have a child why? Obviously you guys are having some sex.
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umm...this doesn't make sense. I am having difficulty correlating plastic surgery with his sin of watching porn? I am so sorry you are going through this.
He has issues obviously, he needs help. He has a perverse mind which you need no part of.
Your appearance has nothing to do with his problem. It's HIS problem, not yours. Please don't make it your problem to the point you want to disfigure your own body while abandoning him when he needs support to stop this addiction. Not that you need to take on saving him, just if you can be there to hold him accountable, that is what he needs. He must stop
You're going to have a baby so the last thing you need is to teach your child even more vanity considering the type of Father you've given him. One that objectifies woman, that is about as vain as it gets. He doesn't see women as real people but objects to satisfy himself. That is sickening.
Please help yourself ...be a good role model to him... support him to get help. A good bible believing church is a great start. I know you are pregnant but after the baby comes, if your parents can babysit or someone you trust, you both should exercise. Cycling is a great way to replace one addiction with a healthy addiction. It also might get you both around a better circle of influence. Also you can join a local Moms group while you are pregnant. Eat righ-organic whole foods as much as possible, no alcohol or smoking
I will pray for you both, so sorry you are going through this. Hang in there
I've become more and more insecure with myself with each day that passes. My boyfriend skips sex with me because he's "too tired" from work but yet I always discover that he watches porn. And it's always the same type of porn, "big ass", "big booty". I'm not a bad lay at all!! Maybe it's because I'm pregnant and became unattractive to him? Idk, but he doesn't seem to care how much this hurts me. It's not the whole porn watching thing that I have a problem with, it's that I feel he chooses it over me. Now I've become so obsessed with getting plastic surgery after I have this baby, maybe this way he won't have the need to look at other woman in that way... Sigh. Am I over reacting???
Save your money and the pain you would have to go through and find a new boyfriend/husband.
I've become more and more insecure with myself with each day that passes. My husband skips sex with me because he's "too tired" from work but yet I always discover that he watches porn. And it's always the same type of porn, "big ass", "big booty". I'm not a bad lay at all!! Maybe it's because I'm pregnant and became unattractive to him? Idk, but he doesn't seem to care how much this hurts me. It's not the whole porn watching thing that I have a problem with, it's that I feel he chooses it over me. Now I've become so obsessed with getting plastic surgery after I have this baby, maybe this way he won't have the need to look at other woman in that way... Sigh. Am I over reacting???
What happens when he starts watching bbw? Are you going to gorge yourself?
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