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Old 07-27-2015, 11:03 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Omg, listen here- you don't wanna get involved w/ someone living that close to you. Give that dude a break, you are getting borderline stalker and he's becoming an unhealthy obsession.. Wow. You see 1st hand what he's up to, lol, chill on that noise... That's why his friends say "uh-oh.." when they see you.
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Old 07-27-2015, 11:12 AM
 
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Whenever I step foot outside and he wants to talk to me, he is very flirtatious (smiley, sometimes blushing a little, complimentary, etc.) and aggressive. What should I do about that? I am asking in sincerity. His behavior hurts my feelings. Do I ignore him? Do I give short replies? Give a reply like everything is fine?
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Old 07-27-2015, 11:18 AM
 
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I believe it is time to stay away from the windows and stay inside your apartment at night and quit stalking this guy.

What gave you the idea that you had any right "to slam the door and be upset with him"? You are not dating, you are not engaged, you are not married, you are not exclusive, you are nothing but the neighbor that he watched television with once or twice.

Your "date" was not a "date" it was the neighbor coming to your apartment watching television, nothing more.

You need to mature more before you even think about being in any type of relationship let alone a serious romantic one.
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Old 07-27-2015, 11:25 AM
 
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Whenever I step foot outside and he wants to talk to me, he is very flirtatious (smiley, sometimes blushing a little, complimentary, etc.) and aggressive. What should I do about that? I am asking in sincerity. His behavior hurts my feelings. Do I ignore him? Do I give short replies? Give a reply like everything is fine?
Excuse yourself from committing to a conversation and continue about your day.
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Old 07-27-2015, 11:27 AM
 
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Whenever I step foot outside and he wants to talk to me, he is very flirtatious (smiley, sometimes blushing a little, complimentary, etc.) and aggressive. What should I do about that? I am asking in sincerity. His behavior hurts my feelings. Do I ignore him? Do I give short replies? Give a reply like everything is fine?
You should dry hump him; maybe in his sleep. It's the next logical step.
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Old 07-27-2015, 11:36 AM
 
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He's not acting like he likes you. If he liked you, you would know it. Its obvious he's not shy about women.

You are reading far far FAR more into his actions than is there. Lighten up and stop spying on him.
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Old 07-27-2015, 11:44 AM
 
Location: Hampton Roads
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Some people are just naturally flirtatious too and it doesn't mean anything!

Talk like neighbors. There's no sense in being rude, but get out of your apartment and do other things aside from tracking who is coming/going from his unit!
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Old 07-27-2015, 11:50 AM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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You should dry hump him; maybe in his sleep. It's the next logical step.
This. This is obviously the next step.
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Old 07-27-2015, 11:51 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Most likely finds you attractive and just wants to sleep with you - convenient booty in the neighborhood. Conquest only. But there is no way he wants you as a crazy gf watching his every move... Imagine how much crazier you will get once he gives you the D... ! Cool off, girl.. Check your head. Be his neighbor or whatever, but if you can't handle a no-strings fling, then let it go. This has drama written all over it.
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Old 07-27-2015, 11:55 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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So dating other women is "acting like he likes me"?
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