Strictly for the women.... (marriage, love, friend, romantic)
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Now folks, I know that it's Christmas eve (and I'm in the process of baking cookies. Yes, I said baking cookies (and I'm a man!) But I need the opinion of the fine women here:
What do you think of a man who, at the end of a day, will do the following spontaneously - not every day, but once in a while...
1) Tells his lady to relax, while he makes a good dinner; serves said dinner with (surprise!) a glass of wine
2) After dinner, he clears away the dishes. He lets his lady relax while he cleans up, takes out the garbage, etc.
3) He may even serve dessert. Repeats the cleaning process for the dessert dishes.
4) After the meal, engages in giving his lady a relaxing neck/shoulder massage. Talks with her, no TV, no phone, no internet, e-mail, etc. NO distractions! Just he and she. Making his lady the one main, principal focus of attention. Listening as well as talking!
The reason I ask this is because a now ex-friend (female) made the remark that, "That's so wimpy and not masculine!" Mind you, this ex-friend was in an abusive marriage and likes "bad boys". I have a "bad boy" mentality myself (outspoken, temperamental) but I'd never hit a woman! Ever! Now, isn't what I mentioned above what a woman would appreciate???
now folks, i know that it's christmas eve (and i'm in the process of baking cookies. yes, i said baking cookies (and i'm a man!) but i need the opinion of the fine women here:
What do you think of a man who, at the end of a day, will do the following spontaneously - not every day, but once in a while...
1) tells his lady to relax, while he makes a good dinner; serves said dinner with (surprise!) a glass of wine
2) after dinner, he clears away the dishes. He lets his lady relax while he cleans up, takes out the garbage, etc.
3) he may even serve dessert. Repeats the cleaning process for the dessert dishes.
4) after the meal, engages in giving his lady a relaxing neck/shoulder massage. Talks with her, no tv, no phone, no internet, e-mail, etc. No distractions! Just he and she. Making his lady the one main, principal focus of attention. Listening as well as talking!
The reason i ask this is because a now ex-friend (female) made the remark that, "that's so wimpy and not masculine!" mind you, this ex-friend was in an abusive marriage and likes "bad boys". I have a "bad boy" mentality myself (outspoken, temperamental) but i'd never hit a woman! Ever! Now, isn't what i mentioned above what a woman would appreciate???
lol I think she means, what did you do wrong that you had to do all that special stuff for her, as if you had to get back in good with her. Like when men give flowers after a big argument.
Just guessing.
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