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Also, please do not think I am talking to these guys just because they are successful or well off.. it just so happen it turned out that way
On a very loosely related note, your post reads very much like you are. Whether you intended it or not, I read your post and instantly thought "gold digger". I understand that listing these guys' credentials was related to your OP, but when reading your description of these guys, I definitely noticed what was listed and what was absent.
Most guys don't have long laundry list. They generally care for appearance, personality and sexual compatibility.
I used to believe this.. really believe this.
Then as my previous relationship approached LTR and I started to look at my life years ahead, I realized that it wasn't the life that I could sustain.... love (appearance, personality, compatibility) wasn't enough.
On a very loosely related note, your post reads very much like you are. Whether you intended it or not, I read your post and instantly thought "gold digger". I understand that listing these guys' credentials was related to your OP, but when reading your description of these guys, I definitely noticed what was listed and what was absent.
Well, like you said- listing these guys' credentials are related to my OP and these guy's credentials ARE the "problem factors". I could have included their looks, personalities, compatibility, etc but it would've been wayy too long. I'm hitting it off with both guys so far. Otherwise, I wouldn't be over thinking this too much.
On a very loosely related note, your post reads very much like you are. Whether you intended it or not, I read your post and instantly thought "gold digger". I understand that listing these guys' credentials was related to your OP, but when reading your description of these guys, I definitely noticed what was listed and what was absent.
Agreed!!!
That was my initial thought as well , don't get me wrong it's important to be successful in what you not necessarily for great wealth but just to enjoy the finer things in life ie holiday/vacation/nights out etc
Most guys don't have long laundry list. They generally care for appearance, personality and sexual compatibility.
Yes, that's what I'm getting at.. is it just a stereotype or is it really so?
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Originally Posted by Katiethegreat
Do you care about passion,electricity,love or is it just credentials for you,my gosh.
Not all women are this basic.
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Of course I care about passion and love. If I didnt, why would I feel so intimidated.. I obviously feel very strongly for these guys. And yes, I care for credentials just as much. Since dating my low life ex that wasn't going anywhere in life, it changed my perspective. I need someone that's hard working, motivated, and can take care of his own finances. And then it just so happens that these 2 guys came into my life, now that I've got it, I'm second guessing if they will like me back.
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, don't get me wrong it's important to be successful in what you not necessarily for great wealth but just to enjoy the finer things in life ie holiday/vacation/nights out etc
