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You managed to post all this and decide to move back to Thailand because clearly it's the U.S. making her cranky, lazy and fat? That is very impressive.
They're moving back to Thailand, where she'll morph back into the mature, happy person he fell in love with, will start wearing makeup again and caring for her appearance, and will do her share around the house. Birds will sing, butterflies will flutter, all will be well with the world.
I hope it works out for you, OP. Maybe the posters who said it was homesickness were right. Good luck.
It can't be a part of the problem. She doesn't know. It was more of a curiosity thing in the past than anything serious. But even if she did know, that would be no excuse for her unreasonable behavior. I'm still trying to get to the bottom of why she's behaving so passive aggressively, and immaturely.
People behave this way when they are unhappy, angry, depressed, frustrated, jealous, betrayed etc., so you need to find out why she is unhappy. Since you are the target, you are in some way the reason for it. She is not happy married to you and this is how she is dealing with it. Is there some reason why she wouldn't just ask for an annulment or divorce? (religion, family, finances?)
If your relations with men were just a "curiosity thing", why do you still consider yourself bisexual?
I have talked to her, many times. I already pointed that out. Yes I think that american culture has made her this way. Not all american women are nags, but american culture is not healthy, and this is why I think moving back to Thailand would be best. I've mentioned this to her and she seems to agree.
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