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If you are in a relationship with a military man or have been, how did you meet them? I have dated some that I met online but now as I look at job options I am looking in other states that are heavily military populated but I keep getting interviews here in my state which isn't. I REALLY REALLY painfully want a military husband because they are buff and strong and manly and hot and have good morals and standards just everything. I'm just concerned if I take a job here that I'm never going to branch out or find a husband and I won't meet military men. I know it's a strange desire but military men marry quickly especially if they are close to being deployed and I want to be married quickly and I would love them and give them a beautiful family. I'm just torn especially about finding a job because idk where to look based on my life desires I don't want to get stuck here where I am. What do I do I feel afraid to turn down job opportunities though because what if I don't get anything in the other states!? I'm just totally panicked like always lol
I have to remember where my license can transfer so I'm looking in VA and TN. I'm afraid of moving too close to a base because I don't want to be "that girl" especially because I'll likely be online dating. I would live near one though
I'm afraid of moving too close to a base because I don't want to be "that girl" especially because I'll likely be online dating. I would live near one though
But ... you ARE that girl. See?
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Originally Posted by Gab12
I REALLY REALLY painfully want a military husband because they are buff and strong and manly and hot and have good morals and standards just everything.
Hopefully you let the smart side of you win and go where the good job is. If you don't want a job in your current town, don't apply locally.
Much like the guys that want to meet "a girl", the OP seems less concerned with the actual person and more the objective idea. I'm not one to judge people for their preferences, but some qualities lend more credibly to a stable relationship, and the OP has shown no concern for any of those; instead opting for a man because of his career.
Gab, honey, how many times do we have to have this conversation?
You have a blank that you now think you want a "military man" to fill. Again, the issue here is all within you. It's about the lack in your life that you **think** a certain type of person, who you may or may not find, will fill up.
This kind of quest, though, usually ends in pain because you are not REALLY searching for a quality person but for a band-aid to heal your pain.
Do what countless people here have suggested and FIX YOURSELF. Focus on the job, make smart decisions, continue therapy and heal YOURSELF, THEN you will be in a better position to choose a life partner instead of throwing darts.
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