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Old 04-09-2016, 06:33 PM
 
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What interesting is that this other guy (who is basically the gym creeper.... no its not me, I just dont go to bars such) chats her up most likely to pick her up. While this goes on she looks over right at me for like 2-3 seconds. we both look away. Then it happens again. I know what her name is, I found her twitter, I don't use twitter. She tweets about me, often when I'm there I know this because I looked at it. She doesn't use my name but I'm being described, and she wonders about this and that about me.

I've talked to her before, I need to get back on it.
Not the gym creeper but you looked her up on a site you don't even use?
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Old 04-09-2016, 06:33 PM
 
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What so you do ask them out and then don't pursue?
One is leaving town.We hung out and talked once. Nice person, but its too far away.
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Old 04-09-2016, 06:35 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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One is leaving town.We hung out and talked once. Nice person, but its too far away.
All the more reason to go for this one mate and quick!!!
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Old 04-09-2016, 08:14 PM
 
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All the more reason to go for this one mate and quick!!!
Yes, but that was a few months ago
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Old 04-09-2016, 08:54 PM
 
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What interesting is that this other guy (who is basically the gym creeper.... no its not me, I just dont go to bars such) chats her up most likely to pick her up. While this goes on she looks over right at me for like 2-3 seconds. we both look away. Then it happens again. I know what her name is, I found her twitter, I don't use twitter. She tweets about me, often when I'm there I know this because I looked at it. She doesn't use my name but I'm being described, and she wonders about this and that about me.

I've talked to her before, I need to get back on it. This week if I can. She sometimes shows up when I am leaving.She sometimes has a GF with her so I also cant then.At least not yet.


I posted this twice I hit the wrong button. I was wanting to quote you the first time.
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Enough already with the excuses and ask her out. Really!

I don't know about the rest of you folks, but threads asking to read someones mind gives me a headache sometimes, Lol.
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Could be. we talked today it went well. She gave the smiles, it was an invite. I followed up.

we'll see whats next.
ok SD, is time to screw on your testicles, and ask this girl out. stop screwing around or she will end up leaving your life, and leaving you wondering what if.
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Old 04-09-2016, 10:59 PM
 
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ok SD, is time to screw on your testicles, and ask this girl out. stop screwing around or she will end up leaving your life, and leaving you wondering what if.
This is a different person
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Old 04-12-2016, 08:27 PM
 
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Bumped into her on the way out as she was going in with friends, she gave me a big smile and I briefly walked over. she told me twice( during the conversation) she wanted to talk later at some point.

My voice broke due to being nervous, she saw that. Whatever

when I see her again I'll try to step it up.

But she said twice she wants to start talking . I never asked

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Old 04-13-2016, 02:55 AM
 
Location: FAIRFAX, VA
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Wow, so these posters were right, you do have hesitations talking to girls you like
You need to go back to the gym tonight and get those digits or slide her your number, if she is with a bunch of friends. That's your mission for today, good luck, you can do it.
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Old 04-13-2016, 05:52 AM
 
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What interesting is that this other guy (who is basically the gym creeper.... no its not me, I just dont go to bars such) chats her up most likely to pick her up. While this goes on she looks over right at me for like 2-3 seconds. we both look away. Then it happens again. I know what her name is, I found her twitter, I don't use twitter. She tweets about me, often when I'm there I know this because I looked at it. She doesn't use my name but I'm being described, and she wonders about this and that about me.

I've talked to her before, I need to get back on it.
She wants you to help her!

Go over and say, "So we're still on for Saturday? Pick you up at 7?"

That would take the wind out of that creepers sails.
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:41 AM
 
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She wants you to help her!

Go over and say, "So we're still on for Saturday? Pick you up at 7?"

That would take the wind out of that creepers sails.
No I am getting the vibe she doesnt know me enough yet. Like maybe a safety thing. I will soon enough. She asked twice to talk later which is basically a green light that she wants to talk more and stuff. It was obvious I walked away feeling great overall.

I was nervous due to the fact that last time we talked I thought I said something dumb that offended her. I guess it didn't matter. She's still very receptive.

Last time she was with friends and I was literally out the door so I cant do anything much until she is alone. She is by herself often enough that I will get a chance.
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