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Old 06-01-2016, 02:01 PM
 
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Old 06-01-2016, 02:03 PM
 
Location: The Great Northern Plains
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I can imagine how utterly devastated your life would be if she wants nothing to do with you.

I'm sure you've enthralled/immersed yourself in this daily fantasy of being with her: walks in the park... holding hands, kissing hugging, laughing, yadda yadda lovely dovey (all from eye contact at the gym) Lol.

All to find out she's has a boyfriend or already dating someone.


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Old 06-01-2016, 02:06 PM
 
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I can imagine how utterly devastated your life would be if she wants nothing to do with you.

I'm sure you've enthralled/immersed yourself in this daily fantasy of being with her: walks in the park... holding hands, kissing hugging, laughing, yadda yadda lovely dovey (all from eye contact at the gym) Lol.

All to find out she's has a boyfriend or already dating someone.
You haven't been following along it seems.
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Old 06-01-2016, 02:34 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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You haven't been following along it seems.
No he's right mate and this is my fear

He's saying it for your concern not to have a laugh at you mate. The worst thing possible is that she turns around and says no and then after all this time invested and dreaming will leave you feeling useless and hurt

It's actually a very serious concern mate and I'm not being funny here
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Old 06-01-2016, 02:37 PM
 
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I can imagine how utterly devastated your life would be if she wants nothing to do with you.
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No he's right mate and this is my fear

He's saying it for your concern not to have a laugh at you mate. The worst thing possible is that she turns around and says no and then after all this time invested and dreaming will leave you feeling useless and hurt

It's actually a very serious concern mate and I'm not being funny here
I'm actually in agreement too. Not that I think she's dating someone else, but you took too long and when, or rather IF, you ever get around to asking her out (which I honestly never see happening), she's going to be completely caught off guard because you've already given her all the signs you aren't interested, and she's going to say no.
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Old 06-01-2016, 02:43 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I'm actually in agreement too. Not that I think she's dating someone else, but you took too long and when, or rather IF, you ever get around to asking her out (which I honestly never see happening), she's going to be completely caught off guard because you've already given her all the signs you aren't interested, and she's going to say no.
That's a valid point from her perspective

After giving out lots of hints and all of a sudden he asks her out she would probably think... " he either had a girlfriend at the time but still talked to me or he's not sure of himself and confident " ( because of how long it took him to approach )

Either way it's just 2 things that may be well off putting for her or any woman infact
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Old 06-01-2016, 02:47 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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You haven't been following along it seems.
I'm sorry, but I don't see an ounce of progress from page 1 of this 144 page thread/ other than you giving different variations of the fantasy you've created in your mind.

If it has? When is your first date?
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Old 06-01-2016, 03:07 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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You haven't been following along it seems.



YOU obviously haven't read your own posts.
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Old 06-01-2016, 03:18 PM
 
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I'm sorry, but I don't see an ounce of progress from page 1 of this 144 page thread/ other than you giving different variations of the fantasy you've created in your mind.

If it has? When is your first date?
Why is this thread 144 pages? Are OP's issues that much different from anyone else that has posted here? Is he some type of celebrity?

It is too easy to gain fame on the internet.
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Old 06-01-2016, 03:24 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Why is this thread 144 pages? Are OP's issues that much different from anyone else that has posted here? Is he some type of celebrity?

It is too easy to gain fame on the internet.
I know what you are saying fella but.........

Firstly WE HAVE ALL tried to help the OP with guidance, advice and the emotional support to HELP him and secondly yes at times we've had a lark and a laugh but the OP has taken most of it in jest which is how it should be mate

And thank you for contributing to my bet in reaching 200 pages mate lmao
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