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What am I gonna do. I already did. I told her thru entail that I will no longer tolerate this. That I gave the 2 of them every chance in the world to act like regular ex spouses. I said therefore the only option I can live with is total 100 percent cut the ties. No contact at all.
She has not replied. Only said that she wants me to come up with solutions. I put that right back on her and said that won't work. She has to decide what she will do.
One thing I know at 49 years old. I cannot change anyone but myself.
What am I gonna do. I already did. I told her thru entail that I will no longer tolerate this. That I gave the 2 of them every chance in the world to act like regular ex spouses. I said therefore the only option I can live with is total 100 percent cut the ties. No contact at all.
She has not replied. Only said that she wants me to come up with solutions. I put that right back on her and said that won't work. She has to decide what she will do.
One thing I know at 49 years old. I cannot change anyone but myself.
She wants you to come up with a solution? Are you serious?
I would give her a solution. Tell her to get the **** out.
Then tell her that inner peace begins with these four words; "not my ****ing problem." And she is no longer your problem.
What am I gonna do. I already did. I told her thru entail that I will no longer tolerate this. That I gave the 2 of them every chance in the world to act like regular ex spouses. I said therefore the only option I can live with is total 100 percent cut the ties. No contact at all.
She has not replied. Only said that she wants me to come up with solutions. I put that right back on her and said that won't work. She has to decide what she will do.
One thing I know at 49 years old. I cannot change anyone but myself.
Good for you to set an ultimatum.
Now please, do NOT create yet another thread about this woman and your problems with her in the future. Three threads is too much.
Thank you everyone. This is the end of Tuesday and she has done nothing but turn this on me. Won't even talk on the phone. Won't do anything but some meaningless emails. Offers no solutions.
There's an old saying. "Actions speak louder than words"
Her actions scream that I'm not important. That she's not willing to change the situation. That she just doesn't care.
It sucks but her heart has hardened from all the hurt she's been thru. A lot of it I put her thru. N
Thank you everyone. This is the end of Tuesday and she has done nothing but turn this on me. Won't even talk on the phone. Won't do anything but some meaningless emails. Offers no solutions.
There's an old saying. "Actions speak louder than words"
Her actions scream that I'm not important. That she's not willing to change the situation. That she just doesn't care.
It sucks but her heart has hardened from all the hurt she's been thru. A lot of it I put her thru. N
You can't control other people or their actions. You can control your actions and reactions. The fact that everything is your fault is telling of her nature and inability to take responsibility for her own actions. You are being unjustifiably blamed.
You didn't put her through anything. She brought it on herself. Block her number, block her email and do not co tact her for any reason whatsoever.
there should be no ultimatum...just DO IT!!....for your own sake...for your future happiness...you've wasted enough precious time already, don't you think?
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