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SMH she asked me to help her pump gas and I'm like sure. We listen to music in the car for 5 minutes and I ask how are we paying for it? She likes oh you want money? I go yeah there's pumping gas and buying gas if you wanted the latter you could have asked. Now she's buying $10 of gas inside while I wait to pump it.
Seriously. OP you aren't interested in a relationship anymore, you just want to make sure she's not getting one over on you $$$. Call it quits and move on.
Yup. Assuming all these stories are accurate then the OP for sure isn't getting any tonight, but he didn't want to anyway, it is now just a power struggle.
What is left? Lots more drives where they park some place that requires money and each tries to make the other crack first while she searches half-heartedly for a card between heavy hints or they sit pretending they like listening to music at gas stations?
Stick a fork in this association, OP. And next time, no showing off, no implied bribes for sex, and no games.
SMH she asked me to help her pump gas and I'm like sure. We listen to music in the car for 5 minutes and I ask how are we paying for it? She likes oh you want money? I go yeah there's pumping gas and buying gas if you wanted the latter you could have asked. Now she's buying $10 of gas inside while I wait to pump it.
Huh? So why would you even ask "how are we paying for it"? I don't get that. Wasn't it her car???
Why even go to Taco Bell? Why not have soup and salad or grilled cheese at home? She knows how to grill a sandwich, doesn't she?
Didn't Rocky's girl like Taco Bell too? Who the hell goes to resorts and the opera and then starts pissing contests at Taco Bell and the gas station?
These have become some unpleasant dates, isn't it supposed to be fun and exciting, at least at first? What's the point.
Something stinks over here...
Didn't Rocky's girl like Taco Bell too? Who the hell goes to resorts and the opera and then starts pissing contests at Taco Bell and the gas station?
These have become some unpleasant dates, isn't it supposed to be fun and exciting, at least at first? What's the point.
Something stinks over here...
Yeah, that's the part of this that's made me think. It's one thing to plan less extravagant dates and generally cool it with the spending, but to flip a switch instantly from dropping thousands of dollars a weekend to freaking out over $5 or $10 just seems...off.
If all this is really happening, why are these people together anymore? Just end it.
Yeah, that's the part of this that's made me think. It's one thing to plan less extravagant dates and generally cool it with the spending, but to flip a switch instantly from dropping thousands of dollars a weekend to freaking out over $5 or $10 just seems...off.
If all this is really happening, why are these people together anymore? Just end it.
I'm still wondering how he gets all this time off to go to resorts and vacations. Is he self-employed or retired?
I cannot imagine a man waiting for me to whip out my debit card at Taco Bell. I'm very glad I'm not young anymore if this is modern dating.
I am all for the "modern dating". This isn't the 1950's anymore. If women wants equal rights/equal pay than a woman has to be willing to pull her own. You can't have it both ways.
When I was dating my husband in the 80's after the first several dates, I paid my share. We took turns. By no means did I expect him to pay for everything.
OP---move on. Money is the root to all evil. This is not going to end well. When money starts to be a problem, it is not going to get better.
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I'm very glad I'm not young anymore if this is modern dating.
