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And I'm not saying (because I have to clarify everything on here it seems), that the majority of women have this fantasy, just that it is the most common one.
And I'm not saying (because I have to clarify everything on here it seems), that the majority of women have this fantasy, just that it is the most common one.
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Originally Posted by timberline742
I think that is the number one fantasy most women I have dated have, being with two men and having them go at it.
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What they're describing to you and what they're describing to male friends very well might be different. That, of course, goes both ways.
And I'm not saying (because I have to clarify everything on here it seems), that the majority of women have this fantasy, just that it is the most common one.
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...among women YOU have talked to about sex.
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With the women that you know.
You know, I made it damn well clear I was referring to the people I had dated when I said this. I typed it out and black and white.
It is seriously impossible to have a conversation if someone has to re-address already made points of reference every single damn time. My second post which you chose to call out was in response to my first post and I was clearly following up and expanding in order to clarify what I meant.
I seriously hope the people on this board aren't this impossible to speak to in person, where the expectation is that conversations can't be built on previous points and every time there is an utterance previous points have to be repeated. Freaking silliness.
Thanks for making my point on the ridiculousness of having to clarify and qualify every single thing on this site. It's absurd.
I consider myself straight since I've only slept with the opposite gender, but I am curious about intimate relations with another woman. I guess that falls in line with being pretty open sexually (with some boundaries, of course) and being willing to try new experiences. I think the only reasons that held me back from going through with my fantasy were my female hangups (i.e. other girl being thinner than me and other silly, competitive stuff which have no real bearing, lol). For some reason I think women would be better in the seduction department. Also it is a bit of a turn on for me to get with a butch-type of girl. On the flip side, my husband has ZERO interest in being with other guys.
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I can fantasize about being with multiple men but I don't get anything off thinking about them together. It's just not in my wheelhouse. I don't think I'm alone in this despite what some posters believe but I agree with being selective with whom I share such information. **** shaming is real and especially amongst women. I've also knew there were guys who had no problem with knowing I'd been with other girls but wouldn't be able to handle knowing I'd been with more then one man at a time. Sexuality is a tricky subject amongst most people unfortunately.
I'm 54, and no more willing to now than I was when younger. That sounds odd to me, as I think most of the time when a straight (not Bi) woman sleeps with another woman, it's to please a man, and younger women are usually under more pressure to seem "adventurous" in bed IMO.
I can fantasize about being with multiple men but I don't get anything off thinking about them together. It's just not in my wheelhouse. I don't think I'm alone in this despite what some posters believe but I agree with being selective with whom I share such information. **** shaming is real and especially amongst women. I've also knew there were guys who had no problem with knowing I'd been with other girls but wouldn't be able to handle knowing I'd been with more then one man at a time. Sexuality is a tricky subject amongst most people unfortunately.
For me, both scenarios can be hot to think about depending on which men are involved.
I'm 54, and no more willing to now than I was when younger. That sounds odd to me, as I think most of the time when a straight (not Bi) woman sleeps with another woman, it's to please a man, and younger women are usually under more pressure to seem "adventurous" in bed IMO.
Not in my experience, not that the men don't enjoy seeing two women together, but any and all of my "experimentations" have been because I have desired to do so.
I also know several women who have been with 2 men at the same time, they were both there for HER, I don't know any women who get off on seeing 2 men go at it.
Not in my experience, not that the men don't enjoy seeing two women together, but any and all of my "experimentations" have been because I have desired to do so.
I also know several women who have been with 2 men at the same time, they were both there for HER, I don't know any women who get off on seeing 2 men go at it.
It's really not that unusual. Q ueer As Folk was one of my favorite TV shows and I believe the majority of the viewers were straight women.
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