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Old 02-06-2017, 11:15 AM
 
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I'm really bad at gift giving especially on Valentine's Day (I only had 1 Valentine's Day where I wasn't single). This is the guy I have gone out on 6 dates with in just a bit over a week. He is gone this week for a skiing trip with friends but we have a date the day after he comes back. Again we have seen each other every other day or so.

He made a reservation at a nice restaurant. I figure he will just do something like flowers and chocolate which I like (I'm traditional). I don't want to give him something safe (like just giving him a cute mug with chocolates in it). I was thinking of putting together a bag of things I know he needs but it's really random (SPF 70 spray, Tend Skin for shaving, and a keychain from a place where we had 1 of the best dates of my life along with Hershey Hugs and Kisses). Does that seem good or too impersonal? I'm adding a card to it.
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Old 02-06-2017, 11:33 AM
 
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I'm not him so I can't possibly know what he would like
To me,
the keychain is personal
chocolates are delicious
the other stuff - saves me some money
I'd especially like the card - assuming you'd fill it with your words and thoughts, and not just whatever Hallmark has to say - but I really like words.
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Old 02-06-2017, 11:36 AM
 
Location: Raleigh, North Carolina
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What are his interests? If you've been on six dates and have been paying attention, you should have an idea of the things he likes, so...what does he like?

If you had been dating longer, I would suggest a big ribbon or bow and maybe some whipped cream, but I have no idea how far you have progressed.
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Old 02-06-2017, 11:37 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I can think of one present that would go down well!

No seriously I think it's great you to want to do something for him

I'm not the best at receiving gifts myself so not the best judge but I'm pretty sure YOU would suffice and be the best gift he could get

Have a wonderful time
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Old 02-06-2017, 12:34 PM
 
Location: Laurel, Maryland
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Valentine's Day is the festival, or occasion, depending on how you perceive it, where you have to buy presents for your loved ones. However, this is not just any occasion but an event that is celebrated by lovers in most profound of forms and ways. The highlight of this festive occasion is the exchange of presents along with a few other activities.

People try to find gifts that are not only unique but also romantic to express their love with their respective spouses or partners on this occasion. While it is relatively easier for women to find suitable Valentine's Day presents for men than the other way around, it can be a daunting task to find a gift for the metro-sexual man.

What Is The Metro-Sexual Man?

Metro-sexual is in no way about the sexual orientation; rather, it refers to men who have a keen sense of fashion and style. The term was made popular in mid 1990s by the writer Mark Simpson. If we go two or three decades back, male vanity, skin care, and fashion were rather frowned upon and mostly attributed to the men of a certain sexual orientation. However, from early 90s, there was a marked increase in men to become more stylish and they started to pay more attention to their appearances.

In the article "Meet the Metro-Sexual," published by Salon.Com, the writer Mark Simpson has described the metro-sexual man in the following words. "The typical metro-sexual is a young man with money to spend, living in or within easy reach of a metropolis-because that's where all the best shops, clubs, gyms and hairdressers are." (Saloon.Com, July 22, 2002)

David Beckham, the legendary English soccer player is widely regarded as the first identified proto-type of the modern metro-sexual man. If your partner is into personal grooming and falls into this category as well, it can be a nightmare to find a suitable Valentine gift for your boyfriend. In order to help you in your search for a present on Valentine's Day, we have presented some tips below.

What And Where To Buy?

If you are not fully prepared to embark on the search for Valentine's Day presents for men, in this case the metro-sexual men, better stick to the "same old" routine of picture frames or socks. However, if you want to bring a smile to your boyfriend's face, you have to come up with a gift that would make his day. Since metro-sexual are all about appearance, your best bet is to get something for his wardrobe or for the accessories such as the cufflinks.

If you opt to buy for his wardrobe, avoid things like cowboy hats, pleated jeans or trousers, colorful vest etc. While buying clothes, first thing to decide are the colors. Your best bet would be to stick with solid colors to be safe. Avoid anything flashy or patterns that appear to be too loud. When buying a shirt, go for 100% cotton. You cannot go wrong with big labels such as Gucci, Armani, Ralph Lauren and the likes of these. If you have to buy clothes, go for labels that are famous for making fashion statements.
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Old 02-06-2017, 12:39 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Valentine's Day is the festival, or occasion, depending on how you perceive it, where you have to buy presents for your loved ones. However, this is not just any occasion but an event that is celebrated by lovers in most profound of forms and ways. The highlight of this festive occasion is the exchange of presents along with a few other activities.

People try to find gifts that are not only unique but also romantic to express their love with their respective spouses or partners on this occasion. While it is relatively easier for women to find suitable Valentine's Day presents for men than the other way around, it can be a daunting task to find a gift for the metro-sexual man.

What Is The Metro-Sexual Man?

Metro-sexual is in no way about the sexual orientation; rather, it refers to men who have a keen sense of fashion and style. The term was made popular in mid 1990s by the writer Mark Simpson. If we go two or three decades back, male vanity, skin care, and fashion were rather frowned upon and mostly attributed to the men of a certain sexual orientation. However, from early 90s, there was a marked increase in men to become more stylish and they started to pay more attention to their appearances.

In the article "Meet the Metro-Sexual," published by Salon.Com, the writer Mark Simpson has described the metro-sexual man in the following words. "The typical metro-sexual is a young man with money to spend, living in or within easy reach of a metropolis-because that's where all the best shops, clubs, gyms and hairdressers are." (Saloon.Com, July 22, 2002)

David Beckham, the legendary English soccer player is widely regarded as the first identified proto-type of the modern metro-sexual man. If your partner is into personal grooming and falls into this category as well, it can be a nightmare to find a suitable Valentine gift for your boyfriend. In order to help you in your search for a present on Valentine's Day, we have presented some tips below.

What And Where To Buy?

If you are not fully prepared to embark on the search for Valentine's Day presents for men, in this case the metro-sexual men, better stick to the "same old" routine of picture frames or socks. However, if you want to bring a smile to your boyfriend's face, you have to come up with a gift that would make his day. Since metro-sexual are all about appearance, your best bet is to get something for his wardrobe or for the accessories such as the cufflinks.

If you opt to buy for his wardrobe, avoid things like cowboy hats, pleated jeans or trousers, colorful vest etc. While buying clothes, first thing to decide are the colors. Your best bet would be to stick with solid colors to be safe. Avoid anything flashy or patterns that appear to be too loud. When buying a shirt, go for 100% cotton. You cannot go wrong with big labels such as Gucci, Armani, Ralph Lauren and the likes of these. If you have to buy clothes, go for labels that are famous for making fashion statements.
That's a very in depth and helpful first post mate

Welcome to the forum
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Old 02-06-2017, 12:57 PM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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Valentine's Day is the festival, or occasion,
You went to some lengths to lift that article directly from the interweb.
Are you trying to pass it off as your own ?
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Old 02-06-2017, 01:35 PM
 
Location: Eastern Washington
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If he's a red-blooded type, something from the Snap-On truck is sure to please.

At least it would please me! If he does not have one already, they offer a 3/8 inch ratchet, 72 tooth, about the size of a normal 1/4 inch ratchet. Very handy working in tight conditions.
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Old 02-06-2017, 01:37 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I was thinking of putting together a bag of things I know he needs but it's really random (SPF 70 spray, Tend Skin for shaving, and a keychain from a place where we had 1 of the best dates of my life along with Hershey Hugs and Kisses). Does that seem good or too impersonal? I'm adding a card to it.
I think it's a sweet idea, made better by the personal touches.

I agree that you should write something meaningful and memorable in the card.
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Old 02-06-2017, 01:46 PM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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My first date with my husband was on V-Day. We exchanged chocolates and cards (he drew me a picture). I can be really mushy-gushy and sappy. I've given my husband flowers on several occasions and we absolutely exchange cards. For one V-Day I gave him a really cool guitar painting, a jar of little notes, guitar picks, a card, and chocolate.

This year we're going out to dinner and a movie. I have a few things in mind. I'm thinking a book or graphic novel we can read together. Definitely chocolate.
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