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Old 07-04-2017, 04:50 PM
 
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Steroids. Most men who use them realize they're too risky, but they do it anyway, the likely most common reason being perceived greater attractiveness to women (via big muscles). Anyone here want to admit to it? Didn't think so.

 
Old 07-04-2017, 06:21 PM
 
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I wear jeans and tee everywhere, I do like wearing nice shoes though. I think about roids sometimes since I get discouraged at my gym progress and I'm just curious how's it make me feel. Reading about possible side effects reel me back in though. I've never considered tats, I think they're stupid. (More power to you if you like them)

Suits? Only when required, uncomfortable and I feel stupid in them.

That all said, I've never been great with woman but all my girlfriends have said I'm super oblivious.
 
Old 07-04-2017, 06:22 PM
 
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Being yourself is attractive!!
 
Old 07-04-2017, 07:53 PM
 
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Being yourself is attractive!!
Except when being yourself means being depressed, angry and resentful.
 
Old 07-04-2017, 11:48 PM
 
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People should think of "Be yourself" as "Be your healthy self." Talents, interests, goals, values, and so on. Major flaws are to be worked on, not actively displayed.
 
Old 07-06-2017, 11:08 AM
 
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Steroids. Most men who use them realize they're too risky, but they do it anyway, the likely most common reason being perceived greater attractiveness to women (via big muscles). Anyone here want to admit to it? Didn't think so.
The type of body I want to have is more or less my size, maybe a bit smaller, but with a bit of definition. I find that some of the women aren't into the extremely big look or even the ripped look. They are fine with tightness with just a bit of definition.

But there are women that like all kinds of looks.
 
Old 07-06-2017, 11:11 AM
 
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Except when being yourself means being depressed, angry and resentful.
Lid for every pot. There are the fringes that are into that.

I myself am depressed, but angry and resentful? No!!!

But when I have my depressive spells, I tend to fade out. I try to let my close friends know when I am getting to the point where I can't function.
 
Old 07-06-2017, 11:13 AM
 
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People should think of "Be yourself" as "Be your healthy self." Talents, interests, goals, values, and so on. Major flaws are to be worked on, not actively displayed.
Ahh, No! Let it all hang out, warts and everything.

One thing I didn't realize about being yourself is that I needed to know myself first. I'm one of those people that aren't who they think they are. I've surprised myself too many times. In order for me to be myself, I had to do a lot of soul searching.
 
Old 07-06-2017, 11:14 AM
 
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I try to look good and stay in shape. Some of this is impacted by the social norm, but I don't get overly concerned about it. I look better than half the guys my age.
 
Old 07-06-2017, 11:39 AM
 
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Lid for every pot.
Here's the thingio. There is not a lid for every pot. If your attitude is bitter, sulky, grumpy (in this example... there are lots of other bad attitudes to have) then there is a strong possibility that there is no lid for the pot (or pot for the lid). My uncle was "rejected" as a young man of like 25. The woman was kind and everything should have been fine. He remained bitter until he died at 82. He struggled to reconcile that his nieces were not spewing fire as all females do. He never found a pot.
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