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Old 08-12-2017, 07:06 PM
 
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I ask, and they will often agree, then they back out. Then I get accused of being afraid to ask them to hang out.
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Old 08-12-2017, 09:23 PM
 
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I ask, and they will often agree, then they back out. Then I get accused of being afraid to ask them to hang out.
Don't let them back out. If they say that day isnt going to work, ask them to pick a day. If you ask, text or call the next day and however many other days until the date to let her know you're thinking about her and interested.

Bryant! You can put a sentence together properly to make a post. There is some intelligence there, surely you must have figured out by now after having the same irritation with women and all of these questions and thoughts, that the common denominator here is you. Its something you are doing-- if you want help ask, and then listen.
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Old 08-13-2017, 01:37 AM
 
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I've never posted like a caveman thank you very much.


When have I ever said, "me no get woman, what wrong?"
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Old 08-15-2017, 08:00 PM
 
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But why can't he close the deal, why do I have to put myself out there and potentially look needy to only be rejected. F** that. I'm going out tonight with someone new, so hopefully that will help me to stop thinking about him.
Whatever you do, dont play games with the new guy like you did with the last one. He ghosted you because you screwed with him.
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Old 08-17-2017, 06:37 AM
 
Location: Texas Hill Country
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This is so irritating on many levels. It's such of waste of my time especially when it sounds like he is on the verge to set up a date and time and doesn't.
Basically, I think it is because they prefer the instant gratification of the fantasies than all the time, leg work, energy of the reality. This is one of the things that our VR world has turned us into.
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Old 08-18-2017, 03:17 AM
 
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Probably because the guy doesn't do dates. I personally do not like to ask the other to go on a date. In short, I do not do dates, unless she asks. I have been on a few dates, but of course all asked me on the date. She paid, she was the pursuer. And quite frankly, they were pretty cool actually. But I very much like being pre-sued. So theres that too.
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Old 08-18-2017, 08:12 AM
 
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He is not that into you and is just playing games. If I want to spend time with someone I make it happen.
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Old 08-18-2017, 10:08 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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If I'm showing interest and not getting back then then why would I continue to pursue said woman? I think a lot women want their cake and eat it as well.
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Old 08-18-2017, 11:46 PM
 
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Probabaly because they are waiting for a signal you would actual want a date with them before making the next move
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Old 08-19-2017, 12:05 AM
 
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First guys are stunted and lazy nowadays. They dont really have to because the women are not a challenge and they are ready to take a running leap into a strange man's arms on a first date. Men, therefore, dont respect women and regard them as a dime a dozen. they don't know how to chase and win someone over. They get hurt and all up in their feelings on the first no. They act like they are scared of women or prefer a dog. Maybe dogs are better company to them?
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