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Desperate never leads to anything good. Not ever. You'd be much better off: going to church, talking to the mental health folks at college, putting more effort into living a healthy lifestyle (including, but not limited to mental health), putting effort into school and finding a decent job/career, etc. Quit looking for an easy out. Drop the fantasy and put more effort into being a better you. You'll eventually have a lot more self respect and won't even consider losers like this guy. But it takes effort. So get going already.
You're using one another for your own needs and not much more.
You seem mostly ok with all the other nonsense that comes with him to get whatever it your getting from this whole exchange.
It's your call on what to do here. you already know what the deal is.
If your ok being treated like trash to treat people like trash in return, by all means go for it.
Just don't expect to find sunshine and roses when shifting through the trash.
You're the romantic eqivilaint of a garage picker in this circumstance. That being, someone looking for something of ANY value in a huge pile of garbage.
You have to be willing to help yourself and not have others solve your problems for you. The only thing your are doing now is contributing your own trash to the pile.
It's extremely hard to take your story serious.
You would have to be the worlds most unaware or worlds most advantageous person for it to even get to a point such as this.
The latter doesn't deserve much sympathy, you would have been aware of the situation as it was happening yet and kept coming back to get more.
The former has already shown its become aware how bad her situation has become for her, and with that should realize she should be contacting a higher power to help her correct her mistakes.
block all forms of contact to his indivual and report any further actions to he authorities
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He hasn't bought me anything over the internet yet. He refuses to give me anything until I meet up with him in person. He said he's fine with buying me nice things and giving me money, but only in person because he doesn't want to get scammed. Is that a red flag?
He's "rich". Why would he care if he got scammed?
He might for example send you a return flight ticket.
Your paid up hotel booking.
You won't be meeting him in his room, right? You would meet in a classy hotel, yes?
You have a bank account - when you meet up in your hotel room, he'll transfer your money into your account and only when it has gone through will you start providing the services. See, he won't get scammed.
Not only that but you'd sign in under your own name and you will have informed the police where you will be (so they know where to trace you should you not return). Don't forget to get his address and get it confirmed.
Have you spoken with his parents? The ones who will actually be paying you for your services?
Something else you could do for your security is join and agency and make the arrangements through them. They'll take a cut of course but he must pay that cut.
You're right, my gut screams at me that this guy is bad news which is why I didn't meet up with him in the first place. I feel a bit trapped though because of his blackmail and threats. He's totally obsessed with me for some reason. If he even finds this thread displaying my distrust for him, he'll go absolutely berserk, begin with the threats to ruin my life and even try to bring innocent people like my family into it. He won't stop stalking me or monitoring my online activity on other forums that he knows I post on.
He even hires people to harass me. One time he hired a man to pretend to be some girl to try to get information out of me, and that man kept it up for days. Another time he shared my personal information and pictures with a sexual predator who then posted my pictures publicly. I got them removed quickly, but I still feel uncomfortable knowing that many unsavory people have my information and pictures.
This guy has his hooks deep into me and I can't escape. I feel like I'm trapped in some abusive relationship that isn't even real. I don't know what to do.
With the offerings of affection and money and threats if I don't comply, he has me completely under his control.
If any of this is true, you need to a.) delete his number, b.) make copies/screenshots of his threatening texts and emails, and c.)make a police report of online harassment.
He might for example send you a return flight ticket.
Your paid up hotel booking.
You won't be meeting him in his room, right? You would meet in a classy hotel, yes?
You have a bank account - when you meet up in your hotel room, he'll transfer your money into your account and only when it has gone through will you start providing the services. See, he won't get scammed.
Not only that but you'd sign in under your own name and you will have informed the police where you will be (so they know where to trace you should you not return). Don't forget to get his address and get it confirmed.
Have you spoken with his parents? The ones who will actually be paying you for your services?
Something else you could do for your security is join and agency and make the arrangements through them. They'll take a cut of course.
Ok... technically all of this still falls under prostitution which is still illegal.... think about it.
If any of this is true, you need to a.) delete his number, b.) make copies/screenshots of his threatening texts and emails, and c.)make a police report of online harassment.
If any of this is true, you need to a.) delete his number, b.) make copies/screenshots of his threatening texts and emails, and c.)make a police report of online harassment.
To answer the original question never but yet. No you shouldn't let a person treat you poorly no matter what and yes, because every girl has to go through at least one.
You're right, my gut screams at me that this guy is bad news which is why I didn't meet up with him in the first place. I feel a bit trapped though because of his blackmail and threats. He's totally obsessed with me for some reason. If he even finds this thread displaying my distrust for him, he'll go absolutely berserk, begin with the threats to ruin my life and even try to bring innocent people like my family into it. He won't stop stalking me or monitoring my online activity on other forums that he knows I post on.
He even hires people to harass me. One time he hired a man to pretend to be some girl to try to get information out of me, and that man kept it up for days. Another time he shared my personal information and pictures with a sexual predator who then posted my pictures publicly. I got them removed quickly, but I still feel uncomfortable knowing that many unsavory people have my information and pictures.
This guy has his hooks deep into me and I can't escape. I feel like I'm trapped in some abusive relationship that isn't even real. I don't know what to do.
With the offerings of affection and money and threats if I don't comply, he has me completely under his control.
I missed this one. Ok, you know what the score is. It's a no brainer. You know what to do. Now do it.
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Originally Posted by fleetiebelle
If any of this is true, you need to a.) delete his number, b.) make copies/screenshots of his threatening texts and emails, and c.)make a police report of online harassment.
Ok... technically all of this still falls under prostitution which is still illegal.... think about it.
Then the agency thing won't offer any security.
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