Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
On the bright side real life is not like that Julia Roberts / Richard Gere hooker and John fall in love movie. Guys do not and would not start dating escorts and marry them.
I would get checked for STD's, I would forward the emails to your personal email account. If you do not have one, create one. This is just to start your "paper trail".
It sounds like you may want to keep the family together and that is YOUR decision and none of these people on here posting. If you do go through with it, you may just want to hand the iPad back with it on one of the emails so that he knows and let him decide what he wants. Be prepared to hear that maybe he is ready to throw in the towel.
By forwarding the emails it will not matter if he deletes them and then says he never cheated.
I feel for your and the children, but cover your bases if not for you, for the kids.....Good luck OP
I agree with sinsativ. Get checked for STD's and send him packing.
Ding-Ding! You can catch a STD from picking someone up at a single's bar. Having worked myself as a prostitute, I believe prostitutes, at least the higher class ones, are as safe as anyone else.
Marriage created prostitution. If you're sexually satisfied in a marriage, no reason to see prostitutes. You say you gave him 15 years of your life, and could you elaborate on that?
Marriage created prostitution. If you're sexually satisfied in a marriage, no reason to see prostitutes. You say you gave him 15 years of your life, and could you elaborate on that?
I'm sure it takes a lot to justify your own past actions, but there's no need to turn this around on someone who may have had absolutely nothing to do with this.
Sexual compulsion and opportunism "created" prostitution, for your information, not marriage. You don't have to have a marriage license to hire a hooker. Plenty of single people do it, and even people who actually have sex with their spouses.
OP, don't bother to elaborate the details of your sex life here. It will only be misused against you. This is a complicated problem that you and your spouse (and your doctor and your attorney) need to sort out.
OP, don't bother to elaborate the details of your sex life here. It will only be misused against you. This is a complicated problem that you and your spouse (and your doctor and your attorney) need to sort out.
I agree with this - your sex life is not relevant to the immediate issue. However, IF you want to try to understand the motivation for his behavior, your sex life may be a factor, or IF you want to try to save the marriage, you may need to consider how your sex life will factor into this.
Ding-Ding! You can catch a STD from picking someone up at a single's bar. Having worked myself as a prostitute, I believe prostitutes, at least the higher class ones, are as safe as anyone else.
Marriage created prostitution. If you're sexually satisfied in a marriage, no reason to see prostitutes. You say you gave him 15 years of your life, and could you elaborate on that?
So why aren’t married women who aren’t sexually satisfied hiring prostitutes?
So why aren’t married women who aren’t sexually satisfied hiring prostitutes?
Because believe it or not, men and women have different sexual needs and desires. I know it is hard for a feminist to accept, but there are differences between men and women.
Marriage created prostitution. If you're sexually satisfied in a marriage, no reason to see prostitutes. You say you gave him 15 years of your life, and could you elaborate on that?
Maybe these were 15 years of nagging, drama and evening headaches? And very expensive V-day presents?
I agree with this - your sex life is not relevant to the immediate issue. However, IF you want to try to understand the motivation for his behavior, your sex life may be a factor, or IF you want to try to save the marriage, you may need to consider how your sex life will factor into this.
Absolutely
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
