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Old 05-13-2018, 06:02 PM
 
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Then you should be fine with her being pregnant with your child.
That is uncalled for.
Condom + Withdraw is within my parameters of acceptable risk.
If she is not comfortable with those parameters, she should tell me, but she never did.
If she wants 100%, she should have told me, but I'm sure if she told every man that, they would run.

When driving, is there a 100% chance you won't die from a car accident?
No, it is an acceptable risk.
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Old 05-13-2018, 06:05 PM
 
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That is uncalled for.
Condom + Withdraw is within my parameters of acceptable risk.
If she is not comfortable with those parameters, she should tell me, but she never did.
If she wants 100%, she should have told me, but I'm sure if she told every man that, they would run.

When driving, is there a 100% chance you won't die from a car accident?
No, it is an acceptable risk.
But she did tell you, increasingly, that she doesn't want sex with you. So what are you going to do about that? What is it you're asking us?
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Old 05-13-2018, 06:05 PM
 
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After 3 months???



So I guess you are breaking up, since you don't trust her?
3 months does not sound like much, but it equates to 288+ hours + 4 weeks of long texts.

I am strongly considering it, but I am really hoping that I am missing something important.
That is why I am in this forum.
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Old 05-13-2018, 06:05 PM
 
Location: DFW
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She doesn't sound like she's worth the hassle and the worry.

Too much work for me, I'd move on to something better.
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Old 05-13-2018, 06:06 PM
 
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But she did tell you, increasingly, that she doesn't want sex with you. Woo what are you going to do about that? What is it you're asking us?
She never told me she wants 100% safety.
I am really hoping that I am missing something important.
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Old 05-13-2018, 06:08 PM
 
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I am strongly considering it, but I am really hoping that I am missing something important.
That is why I am in this forum.
Only you can know this. As to the medical questions, this is not a medical forum. However, your doctor should be able to advise you on general though she will not be able to directly comment on your girlfriend's issues.

Trusting her or not is up to you.
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Old 05-13-2018, 06:08 PM
 
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She never told me she wants 100% safety.
I am really hoping that I am missing something important.
You make absolutely no sense.
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Old 05-13-2018, 06:09 PM
 
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She never told me she wants 100% safety.
I am really hoping that I am missing something important.
We can't know if you did. We don't know you or her. We can unofficially give you our experiences with peri, hypothyroidism or whatever but these only theoretically apply to her.

It is up to you to decide this.
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Old 05-13-2018, 06:11 PM
 
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You make absolutely no sense.
She never said she wants 100% safety (abstinence).
I think I wish she is just testing me.
Maybe she is testing if I treasure her more than sex.
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Old 05-13-2018, 06:12 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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3 months does not sound like much, but it equates to 288+ hours + 4 weeks of long texts.
Texts? Are you being serious?

That is NOT much when you have kids, and your standards have to be WAY higher as a parent.

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I am strongly considering it, but I am really hoping that I am missing something important.
That is why I am in this forum.
There is nothing more important than trust. You sense that she is hiding something from you, and we sense it too.

All that stuff about her period, etc, is just a distraction.
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