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Originally Posted by BirdieBelle
It started as a hook-up app. That's how it got the reputation. Some people then began using it as a regular dating app.
Right, their original tag line was like "meet someone for... tonight" or something close to it, and it was based on grinder.
It's changed, but like all dating sites, there is tons of hook ups. Heck, that's how many many relationships start. It's natural.
But no, it's not ok as a dude to do this. Always let the woman initiate that stuff. Being crude with innuendo (unless you're amazingly talented at entendres) is not a cool look. Less is often more. If she starts with it, that's another issue. But wanting a hook up and approaching situations with class aren't mutually exclusive, and in fact, it often is paired.
I have a friend who does online dating apps, and will sometimes tell me about somebody who sent her a picture of his private parts. She is cool with that, and will keep texting with them if she likes it. She'll also hook up with these guys after texting for a while.
For some reason she is 33 and still single, and complains that she can't meet a quality person.
So there are some women who are fine with it, but if somebody ever did that to me, I'd block their number/profile immediately. I don't care how nice your part may be, that's totally trashy. Same for somebody I don't know leading with sex talk.
I have a friend who does online dating apps, and will sometimes tell me about somebody who sent her a picture of his private parts. She is cool with that, and will keep texting with them if she likes it. She'll also hook up with these guys after texting for a while.
For some reason she is 33 and still single, and complains that she can't meet a quality person.
So there are some women who are fine with it, but if somebody ever did that to me, I'd block their number/profile immediately. I don't care how nice your part may be, that's totally trashy. Same for somebody I don't know leading with sex talk.
I did all I could to avoid the unsolicited pics, and succeeded. Had someone gotten by my "screening" and sent one, it would have been over right then and there.
It's different once I am in a relationship and have seen the real thing. Until then, pics of your junk get you sent to the scrap heap.
I know I am not alone in this.
And I do know women who share unsolicited pics. With hundreds of their closest friends on social media.... So there's that to think about... if any dude who does that is actually thinking with the bigger head.
Well, there is no strict border between dating and hookups sites. It can be persons let say "intention" to say. Simply someone come to real dating site, and when see hot women he wants sex, relationship anything from her, I hope you are inderstand what i am trying to explain.
ah yes, "celebrities and rich guys". We all turn into prostitutes and whres for celebrities and rich guys.
What a bunch of worthless women you have in your life.
hey, Prostitutes and women with a high sex-drive who enjoy casual sex with a variety of men for fun are human beings like the rest of the people on this earth and are wholly worthy of respect and love
The best girlfriend I ever had would get naked to pay the rent(softcore porn magazine and she worked as an escort for a couple years) and she slept with many men and women before I met her, when she was 21, and she was the most kind-hearted human being I have ever met, and yes, before I met her she was dating a guy who was paying for her company and sexual attentions, but she had to make a living and she was hot. Why wouldn't she take advantage of what she had?
Are we going to start calling Brad Pitt and Tom Cruise whrs for taking advantage of their good looks and making hundreds of millions of dollars from them?
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Most Women are not socially programmed to get overtly sexual with strangers unless it's a celebrity or visibly rich guy.
Socially progammed? Do you think women are socially wired to not be sexual or something? But they are socially tuned up to be overtly sexual with strangers if those strangers are celebs like Jon Bon Jovi or visibly rich?
Are you honestly telling me all of the men I met and saw with attractive women, who were overly sexually with them, were all rich?
Do you think women are socially wired to not be sexual or something? But they are socially tuned up to be overtly sexual with strangers if those strangers are celebs like Jon Bon Jovi or visibly rich?
Floyd Mayweather gets sex because he is Floyd Mayweather. He doesn't even have to spend money. Bon Jovi probably the same.
The Women who drop the drawls for these guys will not do it for Trucker Bob, Engineer Todd or Lawyer Craig. Those guys need to take them out on dates, respect them and wait until they are good and ready.
Floyd Mayweather gets sex because he is Floyd Mayweather. He doesn't even have to spend money. Bon Jovi probably the same.
The Women who drop the drawls for these guys will not do it for Trucker Bob, Engineer Todd or Lawyer Craig. Those guys need to take them out on dates, respect them and wait until they are good and ready.
His nickname in the boxing industry is 'Pretty boy'.
Do you think they decided to call him pretty boy because of his intense love for gardening on sunday's morning? That's a 40 something man who is in better shape and has better aesthetics both physically and facially than nearly every young man on the Continent.
if that guy is average than what is the random joe running around on the streets? Look at that jawline. Look at that full, thick blonde hair. Hey, man I wanna be average like him. GIMME. Dude was legit considered to be one of the most beautiful men in the world for at least 1 generation and you telling me women loved him because of his fame.
These guys would pick-up women easily even if they worked as trash collectors. You are thinking about Mick Jagger and that guy from the Aerosmith. Yes, women slept with them because they are rich and famous.
Did women only began to sleep with him when he became rich? So.. if this guy donates all of his money and retires to some redneck town in the USA, women will not want to bang him? Man, things must be hard for the average man if a guy needs to look like a comic book superhero and be ultra rich to get laid.
That's sarcasm by the way.
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The Women who drop the drawls for these guys will not do it for Trucker Bob, Engineer Todd or Lawyer Craig. Those guys need to take them out on dates, respect them and wait until they are good and ready.
might have something to do with Trucker Bob being greasy bob whose obese belly is coming out of his t-shirt as he tries to run for 2 minutes without having a heart attack.
Engineer Todd and Lwyer Craig are having a hard time with women because they try to impress women with their money and education, instead of talking to them.
haha, right. All of the poor guys I met who slept with women quickly did so because they were famous and rich. Yes, plumbers who are lucky to start the month with 20 bucks on their bank accounts are sleeping with women because every woman is a gold-digger and women need 'em 20 bucks to spend on the hairdresser
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