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Everybody keeps saying how Tinder is a "hookup app."
Those people don't know what they're talking about.
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Does that mean that users can be overtly sexual there, which would be considered vulgar on a site like Match.com? I don't mean to be crude, but if it's a hookup app, does that a mean that when there's a mutual match, a man can introduce himself by saying something to the effect of "Nice shoes, wanna [snip]" -- and it's something that's expected and not out of the norm? Or is it still expected that there's some kind of neutral or conversational "getting-to-know-you" stuff?
On a site like OkCupid or Match you can't write a message which is overtly sexual. It's considered inappropriate and rude. But is it OK on Tinder?
If you think the kind of message you can send is dictated by the dating platform you are on, you've completely missed the point and have much bigger issues.
Oh yes. There seems to be a new trend with women asking for men to perform oral on them with getting nothing in return. It is a hookup app and the people are very explicit as to what they want. I have looked at it but since I am married and too old, I just looked.
Oh yes. There seems to be a new trend with women asking for men to perform oral on them with getting nothing in return. It is a hookup app and the people are very explicit as to what they want. I have looked at it but since I am married and too old, I just looked.
Everybody keeps saying how Tinder is a "hookup app." Even those who say it's transitioned to a more conservative dating site still say how it largely remains "hookup-based."
Does that mean that users can be overtly sexual there, which would be considered vulgar on a site like Match.com? I don't mean to be crude, but if it's a hookup app, does that a mean that when there's a mutual match, a man can introduce himself by saying something to the effect of "Nice shoes, wanna [snip]" -- and it's something that's expected and not out of the norm? Or is it still expected that there's some kind of neutral or conversational "getting-to-know-you" stuff?
On a site like OkCupid or Match you can't write a message which is overtly sexual. It's considered inappropriate and rude. But is it OK on Tinder?
I tried Tinder but all the girls who messaged be turned out to be bots of some sort. I first figured that out when one said she lived in Dallas. So happens that I know it extremely well since I grew up there. After a few questions it dawned on me that she had never been there. Same sort of thing happened with several other "girls". I'm not sure what the scam is but it must be something!!!
The best girlfriend I ever had would get naked to pay the rent(softcore porn magazine and she worked as an escort for a couple years) and she slept with many men and women before I met her, when she was 21, and she was the most kind-hearted human being I have ever met, and yes, before I met her she was dating a guy who was paying for her company and sexual attentions, but she had to make a living and she was hot. Why wouldn't she take advantage of what she had.
My impression is that women expect something serious on virtually every app. Tinder probably less so, but a strong come on is probably not going to work.
When can a man say "I want sex." "Sex is fun." "Do you think having sex with me would be fun?"
When he is married. Probably the number one reason he should avoid divorce.
Is it possible to set your profile for Hookups only; if so, is it probably a better idea not to?
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