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Originally Posted by xsthomas
That "We grew apart" means. I havent grew up yet and havent got being single out of my system yet, and not ready to adjust to being married. Some guys take several marriages to get it out of their systems, if they ever do. Theres really no growing apart. Its trying something that was doomed from the start.
I've have plenty of friends that got marries because, well everybody else is getting married, or, My parents think I should be married by now, or, there's a kid involved. The bad parts is, she thinks they got married cause he loves her. Now read the first paragraph again.
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Not necessarily. I married young (22) and we always said that being so young meant we had to consciously remember to grow together. I kept this belief until i realized i was standing there alone. Blaming myself for his rejection. Finally i woke up at 32, looked in the mirror and realized i was wasting my youth waiting for a man who didn't love me anymore to notice me again. No one understood why we divorced because they weren't in our bedroom. People seem to accept divorce if there is infidelity or abuse, but any other reason and they just assume we didn't try hard enough.
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