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Old 09-27-2019, 06:54 PM
 
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Well I’m sorry I disappointed all of you... and myself.
I was in denial obviously but now I see that he wants her, and only her.
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Old 09-27-2019, 07:23 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Well I’m sorry I disappointed all of you... and myself.
I was in denial obviously but now I see that he wants her, and only her.
... and?
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Old 09-27-2019, 07:42 PM
 
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... and?
He suggested we do couples therapy.. wonder if it’ll even be worth it?
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Old 09-27-2019, 07:54 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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He suggested we do couples therapy.. wonder if it’ll even be worth it?


Will the other woman be coming along?

You can’t be serious.
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Old 09-27-2019, 08:26 PM
 
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Will the other woman be coming along?

You can’t be serious.
I hope that’s not what he means LOL what a sh*tshow.
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Old 09-27-2019, 08:31 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I hope that’s not what he means LOL what a sh*tshow.
You need individual therapy.
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Old 09-27-2019, 08:48 PM
 
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You need individual therapy.
Like unrelated to the relationship right? Hey... I never said I’m all mentally sound.
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Old 09-27-2019, 08:51 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Like unrelated to the relationship right? Hey... I never said I’m all mentally sound.
Unrelated?? Well, it would end up being related because you would be sorting through the emotional deficiencies that kept you in this relationship (and still keep you there) despite blatant maltreatment and disrespect.

I really doubt this situation is real. It's ridiculous.
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Old 09-27-2019, 08:52 PM
 
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There's nothing to counsel on.

The guy is still in love with another woman. What is therapy going to do besides continue to echo what we've said here and tell you you're wasting money.

OP, you have some serious self worth problems that need to be addressed individually. You're in DEEP denial and extremely stubborn to stay in a situation that brings nothing but mental suffering.
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Old 09-27-2019, 09:13 PM
 
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We are broken up as of now, I’m sick of it and sick of him. I loved him so much that I sacrificed my sanity for him. I know I sound like a mess to you and none of it makes sense but he has something about him that sucked me back in... you’ve no idea how “sweet and nice” he is to me on paper... like aside from the texts, if I never read them I would have thought I’m the happiest woman on earth. He acted so respectful, sweet, helpful, committed. That trip we took in June included his parents and sister! I only wanted to see the good side. I refused to believe he has any feelings for the random ex, that she was just a thing to him.

I’m not making any excuses but it’s hard to imagine unless you go through it yourself...
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